How to make yourself approach?

[Mike24ct]

In the book "Awaken the Giant Within", Tony Robbins talks about a concept called leverage, where you link so much pain to not changing, that you are basically forced to change.

This is useful in pickup. When out with a wing, I have used the "money game" to help force me to approach. That's where you give your wing a certain amount of money and you don't get it back until you complete your approaches. It works awesome.

However, most times, I don't have a wing with me and end up sarging alone. Is there any way to get leverage on yourself to force yourself to approach?

Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks

~~Mike

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Consider changing your purpose or goal of approaching. Change it to something less intimidating.

 

[Shiftkey]

Instead of trying to trick yourself, make yourself desensitized. Go somewhere an hour away where you'll never run into the same people again, and approach 20 women a day, 3 or 4 days a week, for a month. Your goal is to fail - say rediculous sh1t that you know won't work.

 

[blinkwatt]

No secrets to getting me in approach mode.

*I think life is short, and I don't want to miss an opportunity.

*I think of girls past who I was too ashamed or nervous to approach; I tell myself that was the old me.

Solid info,that's how I "brought down" approaching women. I also do it because I LOVE the adreline rush.