How to make women not be the center of your world?

[Moofahsa]

I got a bit of a problem here.

I'll be zooming by at my job, with friends, doing better at hunting and fishing...

Then a broad creeps in my life and **** goes down hill. I throw everything out the window for the girl, not afc like but I hang out on my days off and lunch breaks...all my personal time. It is so stupid, but it happens over and over and I see a pattern. I get this empty feeling inside when I'm not around them and know I am sticking my neck out entirely too much in relationships. I set myself up for failure.

How does one fix something like this? I just want to keep women like a hobby like hunting or fishing, something I do a couple of three times a week and when I'm done I move on to the next project.

 

[Interceptor]

Your Mission in life must over ride your neediness.
If you were more fulfilled in life, you would have a stronger frame to interact with women.
In other words, if your life had more meaning, purpose, and was more compelling you would better be able to deal with women, and be the Rock ,and enjoy her and live your life, rather than being so needy.

You must be comfortable with yourself.

You must learn how to BE ALONE.

You must build a better life that compels you and inspires you.

You must focus on building Emotional Strength , so that you can better handle the good times and the bad times.

You are too willin got give up your Resources, thus, a hole in your Personal Boundary, thus you feel frazzled and strung out, drained, andyour Masculinity is leaked out.

This is all about Personal Boundary.
You must learn how to manage your Resources better.
And you must be able to Prioritize.

Somewhere alog the line, your needs arent being met.
So now, being NEEDY , you look to Women to fulfill these needs.

But see, the KEY to SUCCESS with women is NEVER BEING NEEDY.

 

[Mistic]

A fisherman should understand "tag and release."

 

[Interceptor]

have the emotional strength to LET HER GO.
If shes not interested or its not workin gout.

LET HER GO and WALK AWAY.

You can't do that when you are NEEDY and you cant handle the damage to your ego.

So a woman doesnt VALIDATE your Ego.

So what?

You expect a woman to fulfill your NARCISSISTIC tendency??


come on...

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Interceptor you´re the man!

For the first time I tried dumping a woman I liked because it was not working out, and man it HURTS. I had never done that before, and for the first time the tables were turned. She was the one asking to go back...

I still think about her, but I´m feeling better and know that there´s always another change to start again.

 

[Interceptor]

BP,
you see now how you gained perspective?

You see how you need certain resources and have to have the ability to let her go in ORDER to truly APPRECIATE HER and your situation?

And how VALUEABLE your Personal Resources ARE to you??

Very important to reach this stage.

If you are NEEDY, you can neve rtruly get out of your head, and appreciate her, and be free at the same time.

You will always be under pressure.