I consider myself a pretty confident guy. I have good body language, feel really comfortable in my own skin, and am not afriad to approach women. However a lot of the interactions i have with women seem really forced and unnatural, and they can pick up on this. But mostly my conversations and kino dont flow, and im always thiking of what to say next, or when to touch her, and sometimes it comes off as creepy. Especially when I have nothing to say and theres the dreaded awkward pause. It also always seems to me that its an ordeal to set up dates and it never feels right. It feels like im pushing for it to happen instead of the two of us just genuinely deciding to hang out. ANyways, i feel like my confidence is genuine, but my game isnt. How do i fix this?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to make things natural?
- Thread starter saber101
- Start date