I consider myself a pretty confident guy. I have good body language, feel really comfortable in my own skin, and am not afriad to approach women. However a lot of the interactions i have with women seem really forced and unnatural, and they can pick up on this. But mostly my conversations and kino dont flow, and im always thiking of what to say next, or when to touch her, and sometimes it comes off as creepy. Especially when I have nothing to say and theres the dreaded awkward pause. It also always seems to me that its an ordeal to set up dates and it never feels right. It feels like im pushing for it to happen instead of the two of us just genuinely deciding to hang out. ANyways, i feel like my confidence is genuine, but my game isnt. How do i fix this?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to make things natural?
- Thread starter saber101
- Start date