How to make things forward on phone?

[Alucard88Cool forum!]

Last weekend I went in another city, and I found this beautiful woman a the bar. I had to approach her, we started to talk, drinking togeter. After an hour I had to go and I asked her phone, another woman (much uglier) approached me during the phone exchange, wanting to give me her phone too. I saw this as an opportunity to higher my status by giving the beautifull woman the image of me "having many girls". So basically I exchanged both the number with both the girls, one in front of the other.

After I leaved the place, I remain in contact with both of them, but I am not very interested in the uglier one, while I really like the other one. And now that I am in my city I would like to plan to met up with this woman, but to come at her place it requires 2 hour of train, so is not something so "functional".

We had a couple of chat (I met her 3 weeks ago), and she says I am very beautifull, she was asking me if I met the other girl, and also that she is ensure of her self, because she want to focus of the job, and she is also scared that I might betray her with a younger and more beautiful woman.

I make things clear. I told her that I like her, and that I want to share time with her to se if we match, and that I am looking for a healthy relationship with a healthy woman, I made things cleare that I don't accept fights, useless drama and problems (like my ex girlfriend use to). But now is about 3 day. I am not sure of how make things farward. Should just wait her to engage a conversation to see if she is really interested? Or should I push the things in some way?

Thanks for your answers

 

[BPH]

After an hour I had to go and I asked her phone, another woman (much uglier) approached me during the phone exchange, wanting to give me her phone too. I saw this as an opportunity to higher my status by giving the beautifull woman the image of me "having many girls". So basically I exchanged both the number with both the girls, one in front of the other.

 

[Alucard88Cool forum!]

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You came even here , jealous of my result? Maybe you frequent thia forum from a long time but never get result, wasting time trying tell people how are they crazy? The world goes on my friend, go outside and get aome girls.

 

[BPH]

go outside and get some* girls.

Maybe you should read my posts, you might learn something.

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[Alucard88Cool forum!]

Maybe you should read my posts, you might learn something.

EDIT: Here, I did it for you...

Juggling some options, wondering what you guys think about this particular one

So, my family is all on a cruise for my mom's birthday, except me. I'm here taking care of the cat at the house for the next week, and I'm pretty keen on inviting some company. I went out last night for a bit, had low expectations, but ended up meeting this hot older woman at the bar. We...

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I like to learn, thanks for your share, I'll read these posts

 

[Alucard88Cool forum!]

How exactly is that going to heighten your status?

When women see that a man have option, they feel this man is preselected, so his value is boosted. Correct me if I am wrong

 

[Alucard88Cool forum!]

Thanks I am reading with interest, I see what you mean, and it make sense.
SO I'll try to "select" better. But I would like to bring the topic to his original question: how to move things forward with a woman on texting? She was very constant, and now she is gosting. Should I wait or should I push forward ?

 

[Solomon]

Elliot Rodger posting again

 

[The Duke]

Last weekend I went in another city, and I found this beautiful woman a the bar. I had to approach her, we started to talk, drinking togeter. After an hour I had to go and I asked her phone, another woman (much uglier) approached me during the phone exchange, wanting to give me her phone too. I saw this as an opportunity to higher my status by giving the beautifull woman the image of me "having many girls". So basically I exchanged both the number with both the girls, one in front of the other.

After I leaved the place, I remain in contact with both of them, but I am not very interested in the uglier one, while I really like the other one. And now that I am in my city I would like to plan to met up with this woman, but to come at her place it requires 2 hour of train, so is not something so "functional".

We had a couple of chat (I met her 3 weeks ago), and she says I am very beautifull, she was asking me if I met the other girl, and also that she is ensure of her self, because she want to focus of the job, and she is also scared that I might betray her with a younger and more beautiful woman.

I make things clear. I told her that I like her, and that I want to share time with her to se if we match, and that I am looking for a healthy relationship with a healthy woman, I made things cleare that I don't accept fights, useless drama and problems (like my ex girlfriend use to). But now is about 3 day. I am not sure of how make things farward. Should just wait her to engage a conversation to see if she is really interested? Or should I push the things in some way?

Thanks for your answers

Maybe I'm missing something here, simply figure out a time and a place and ask her out. I'd make it somewhere halfway between both of you.

 

[Alucard88Cool forum!]

Maybe I'm missing something here, simply figure out a time and a place and ask her out. I'd make it somewhere halfway between both of you.

No warries, she black listed me

 

[Gamisch]

 

[Gamisch]

"found this beautiful woman a the bar. I had to approach her, we started to talk, drinking togeter. After an hour I had to go and I asked her phone, another woman (much uglier) approached me during the phone exchange, wanting to give me her phone too."

 

[Alucard88Cool forum!]

I don't understand whats the problem with what I said, I got a woman number and than she blacklisted me. But you all say it never happened........ ok, I'll take it, but really, if the thones in this forum are all like this, I don't see the point of this forum...... exactley what is the purpose of this forum? To help or to "shame" people?

I think there is a middle way between "to be a little crying girly" and to be a "tought mean super masculine man", and none of these option are really helpfull. But if the price I have to pay to get some good answer is to read many "super masculine tought mean nonesense" so bee it

I would also say that is very tiring to even respond to all of this, and even just to read. But ok, I'll take it like a therapy, by reading it, stay with it, and not getting triggered by it. This is also a way to grow