"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to make more Friends

skumface

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ok so i just moved to a totally new country. ive been in school for a week now and ive gotten to KNOW quite a bit of people so being in school is pretty fun.
however heres the prob: once i get home im bored as a mother****er!!! my contact list on my phone is pretty small compared to the one back over in Europe :(
What im wondering is how to meet guys after school, weekend without sounding gay. Ive asked a couple guys to the gym but they do their own workouts at home (ive asked like 4 guys). i also asked about parties and such and they responded with giving a hint of invatation to me :(

so how can i take a friendship from school and take it outside aka so i can get a life!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phantasmal

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Do you have a job? Even if you don't need the money, it'd be good to get a part-time one at the mall or something in addition to meeting people at school. Besides, more money never hurts.
 

Inquire

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just be truthful and funny, cuz everyone likes a funny dude. like "so wut do u guys do here, i'm bored at home, i need to do somethang fun!!!"
 

Jay-X

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plus, don't worry, you've been there for just a week... what did you expect? to know the whole city in 7 days?!
what country are you in?
 
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