"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to make more Friends

skumface

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ok so i just moved to a totally new country. ive been in school for a week now and ive gotten to KNOW quite a bit of people so being in school is pretty fun.
however heres the prob: once i get home im bored as a mother****er!!! my contact list on my phone is pretty small compared to the one back over in Europe :(
What im wondering is how to meet guys after school, weekend without sounding gay. Ive asked a couple guys to the gym but they do their own workouts at home (ive asked like 4 guys). i also asked about parties and such and they responded with giving a hint of invatation to me :(

so how can i take a friendship from school and take it outside aka so i can get a life!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Phantasmal

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Do you have a job? Even if you don't need the money, it'd be good to get a part-time one at the mall or something in addition to meeting people at school. Besides, more money never hurts.
 

Inquire

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just be truthful and funny, cuz everyone likes a funny dude. like "so wut do u guys do here, i'm bored at home, i need to do somethang fun!!!"
 

Jay-X

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plus, don't worry, you've been there for just a week... what did you expect? to know the whole city in 7 days?!
what country are you in?
 
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