"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to make her anticipate your kiss

ladiesman217

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So you meet a nice girl and hit it off well, you do a number close and set up a date. Your date goes well and you know she likes you so you want to go for a kiss close. You could kiss her... Or you could ask her if you can kiss her, the say next time. Boom. By the time she does get to see you again she will have anticipated your kiss and she will want it really badly.

I read this article a few years ago here on sosuave from one of the news letters. It sounds good in theory, but what if she says no. Then what? Do you say fvck you and run off in anger like a douche or apologize for being sexual like an afc. What would the alpha do? Would he even ask to kiss? Or would he just pull her aside and lay one on her insted of thinking about how to do it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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It doesn't really matter. Personally I'd prefer to not risk that and just go for it.
 

AlexLefty

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ladiesman217 said:
So you meet a nice girl and hit it off well, you do a number close and set up a date. Your date goes well and you know she likes you so you want to go for a kiss close. You could kiss her so kiss her duh... Or you could ask her if you can kiss her, the say next time. you could but why would u Boom. By the time she does get to see you again she will have anticipated your kiss and she will want it really badly. not always true.

I read this article a few years ago here on sosuave from one of the news letters. It sounds good in theory, but what if she says no. Then what? Do you say fvck you and run off in anger like a douche or apologize for being sexual like an afc. What would the alpha do? Would he even ask to kiss? Or would he just pull her aside and lay one on her insted of thinking about how to do it. The last time i kissed a girl we were in the backseat of her car talking for like 5 minutes. then i asked her a question and she was talking for what seemed like forever. so i just put my finger up to her lips, "shhh" and leaned in and kissed her. or, if you feel like you need a line, use: "So i have a question for you, on a scale of 1 to 10, how good of a kisser are you?" then kiss her.
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