"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to make her anticipate your kiss

ladiesman217

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So you meet a nice girl and hit it off well, you do a number close and set up a date. Your date goes well and you know she likes you so you want to go for a kiss close. You could kiss her... Or you could ask her if you can kiss her, the say next time. Boom. By the time she does get to see you again she will have anticipated your kiss and she will want it really badly.

I read this article a few years ago here on sosuave from one of the news letters. It sounds good in theory, but what if she says no. Then what? Do you say fvck you and run off in anger like a douche or apologize for being sexual like an afc. What would the alpha do? Would he even ask to kiss? Or would he just pull her aside and lay one on her insted of thinking about how to do it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NorwegianDJ

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It doesn't really matter. Personally I'd prefer to not risk that and just go for it.
 

AlexLefty

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ladiesman217 said:
So you meet a nice girl and hit it off well, you do a number close and set up a date. Your date goes well and you know she likes you so you want to go for a kiss close. You could kiss her so kiss her duh... Or you could ask her if you can kiss her, the say next time. you could but why would u Boom. By the time she does get to see you again she will have anticipated your kiss and she will want it really badly. not always true.

I read this article a few years ago here on sosuave from one of the news letters. It sounds good in theory, but what if she says no. Then what? Do you say fvck you and run off in anger like a douche or apologize for being sexual like an afc. What would the alpha do? Would he even ask to kiss? Or would he just pull her aside and lay one on her insted of thinking about how to do it. The last time i kissed a girl we were in the backseat of her car talking for like 5 minutes. then i asked her a question and she was talking for what seemed like forever. so i just put my finger up to her lips, "shhh" and leaned in and kissed her. or, if you feel like you need a line, use: "So i have a question for you, on a scale of 1 to 10, how good of a kisser are you?" then kiss her.
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