"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to make friends?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ_Hero said:
I recommend that you read Dale Carnegie's How To Win Friends and Influence People. I haven't read it yet but I've heard great things about it.
I read this book when I saw it lying around my house. But then I stopped because, I already do all of the things the book says naturally. It's just I have a different problem, it's just with the opposite sex, with the hot girls. But yeah, read the book it should give you an idea of how to be friends with people and make them have a better outlook about you.
Good luck man and if you decide to read the book, think of it as a road map because some of the chapters in the book are a bit iffy.
 

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Well you have to get out there and meet people. Seriously. If you are a cool guy and you are meeting a lot of people, then there is no way you can't make friends. Get a hobby, go to some school clubs, get into the school sports teams, just meet as many people as possible.

You want to do something with people outside of school, get their numbers, invite them out for a drink or something like that, or wait until you are accepted into a social circle and they will start inviting you out.

This is the easy part, the hard part is being someone who has social value to give to a group of friends and not being someone who will just drain value. on't be depressed, be upbeat, sociable and fun. Get confident.
 
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