I was at a club and there was this chick, she sat right in front of me. The problem is I didnt know how to break the ice. What should I say. I couldnt ask her to dance cause i messed up my ankle. Whats a good way just to talk to girl? Just say hey girl whats your name or what?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How to make conversation?
- Thread starter gunit630
- Start date