how to make a one nighter a two nighter

[goodproblemtohave]

So, this girl sits down next to me at a bar and we instantly hit it off. A lot of fun. She is on a business trip, and I am visiting home but also work where she is from. We hang out all night, I show her the town, when it gets down to what next I clearly mis read some things and this girl has a serious boyfriend and is totally down do nothing but one thing. She made it pretty clear that because of her man not to follow her on any type of social media and all indications are it was a one night thing. But holy mother was it a fun night. This girl could put it down. In the am she said the "I had fun" line which we all know what that means. I replied with the same, but then said if you want to do it again sometime ill give you my number, which she gladly took and I have hers. Couple of texts later and that was it.

Now I am back at work where she lives. I usually prefer my one nighters to be a two or three time occasion. Once they get even more comfortable with you it just gets a little better. If this girl ups her game she will blow my damn mind.

So the million dollar question is how do I play this. Usually when I have been here there wasn't some complicated boyfriend who probably lives with her in the way. I know it was her "business trip" fun, but the X factor stuff here makes it slightly different. I don't want to F up another chance in the sack with this one.

Do I wait and do nothing and hopefully she gets lonely sometimes soon when her man is out of town? Do I throw her a proposition here in a week or two? I can't just wait and bump into her sometime either. He would most likely be there and she would get spooked.

Open to all suggestions.

 

[Married Buried]

You just be cool and give her a call and tell her to meet you. What is so hard to decide?

 

[glass half full]

This all goes to show that the adage that women are poor, meek,
mild little creatures who get hurt so easily is totall BS!

Women have hearts of complete stone.