"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to make a once interested girl come back

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We have all faced it. That special girl who was so awesome, or so gorgeous abruptly stops returning calls, flakes on meetings, and may even act as if she would rather not know you!

It doesn't have to be this way. The single best way to make a girl who has lost interest is NOT to appeal to logic, NOT to get upset, NOT to mention former promises left unkept. The BEST way is to be live your life to the fullest!

As a corollary you can even "accidentally" let her know through your friends that you are living it up!

What do I mean by living it up? That is up to you. For some guys it would mean having many woman they can date at any given time. Others a promotion. Others starting their own business.

Live your life to the fullest, focus on improving YOURSELF, let her "find out" about it, be seen with attractive women and powerful people.

Then when SHE calls you wondering "whats up?? <<giggle>>" you will have all the power.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Great advice.

I am currently in this kind of situation, and I am trying my best to improve myself and the quality of my life since I f***ed up my chances with this girl. So next time we meet, I truly hope she will notice and kick herself!! Hahaha...
 
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Originally posted by mizter6
ur absolutely right about ur advice it has worked for me
the girl just stope talking to me so i ignored her and did my own stuff and started talking to other girls instantly even some of her friends and im pretty sure her sister noticed too. now shes back to her orginal self and glad to see me and talk to me good luck with ur girl:woo:
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Yeah for sure man. Plain and simple, women like men who can go on, regardless! Be the ALPHA MALE!!!!!!!
 
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This line from a song shows the attitude I have:
"Back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot hoes all on me"

For the future, I like to imagine myself in my Ferrari, with my hot girl next to me, pulling up at a stoplight next to that one girl who turned me down every time, and then imagining the look on their face :) Well, you don't have to be super successful, but I want you to KNOW that in 10 years girls that previously turned you down will kick themselves forever knowing what they missed out on, because, gentlemen, it is a reality they will have to face up to.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow this is a great piece of advice, simple but true, its just unfortunate that most people think this kind of advice is to simple to work.
 
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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone

"Back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot hoes all on me"
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MIKE JONES!


Anyway, **** 10 :cheer: and then think about you special girl.
 
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