"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to make a once interested girl come back

DJohnson

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We have all faced it. That special girl who was so awesome, or so gorgeous abruptly stops returning calls, flakes on meetings, and may even act as if she would rather not know you!

It doesn't have to be this way. The single best way to make a girl who has lost interest is NOT to appeal to logic, NOT to get upset, NOT to mention former promises left unkept. The BEST way is to be live your life to the fullest!

As a corollary you can even "accidentally" let her know through your friends that you are living it up!

What do I mean by living it up? That is up to you. For some guys it would mean having many woman they can date at any given time. Others a promotion. Others starting their own business.

Live your life to the fullest, focus on improving YOURSELF, let her "find out" about it, be seen with attractive women and powerful people.

Then when SHE calls you wondering "whats up?? <<giggle>>" you will have all the power.

DG
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Triple X

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Great advice.

I am currently in this kind of situation, and I am trying my best to improve myself and the quality of my life since I f***ed up my chances with this girl. So next time we meet, I truly hope she will notice and kick herself!! Hahaha...
 

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Originally posted by mizter6
ur absolutely right about ur advice it has worked for me
the girl just stope talking to me so i ignored her and did my own stuff and started talking to other girls instantly even some of her friends and im pretty sure her sister noticed too. now shes back to her orginal self and glad to see me and talk to me good luck with ur girl:woo:
Yeah for sure man. Plain and simple, women like men who can go on, regardless! Be the ALPHA MALE!!!!!!!
 

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This line from a song shows the attitude I have:
"Back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot hoes all on me"

For the future, I like to imagine myself in my Ferrari, with my hot girl next to me, pulling up at a stoplight next to that one girl who turned me down every time, and then imagining the look on their face :) Well, you don't have to be super successful, but I want you to KNOW that in 10 years girls that previously turned you down will kick themselves forever knowing what they missed out on, because, gentlemen, it is a reality they will have to face up to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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wow this is a great piece of advice, simple but true, its just unfortunate that most people think this kind of advice is to simple to work.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone

"Back then hoes didn't want me, now I'm hot hoes all on me"
MIKE JONES!


Anyway, **** 10 :cheer: and then think about you special girl.
 
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