How to make a move

[FightinTiger]

I take girls on dates, but they rarely ever turn out into anything more than just that. Yes, we have good conversations. We laugh and I do a little ****y/funny type stuff, busting her balls a little bit. However, I try to instigate a little kino, and she doesn't respond. I try again later, again she doesn't respond. I know what you're thinking... She's not interested, so NEXT her. But this happens with every girl I go on a date with! What am I doing wrong? Is there a specific way to go about kino and making a move? I feel really awkward when I try anything more than a hug.

EDIT: Basically, is there a good strategy to get that first kiss? (I apologize for the tone. I had just gotten back from another date that didn't lead to anything and I was in a whiny mood )

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

You're thinking too much on kinoing,probably feeling awkward and preplanned when you're doing it,the girls catch up on this fast.And what kind of response were you expecting anyway? It would help to understand the situation.

 

[FightinTiger]

Well, basically, I'm looking for a good strategy to get that first kiss in. And yes, I realize that often times there's that "moment" that you have to take advantage of. But sometimes I have to MAKE those moments happen, because they may not happen on their own. How do I do this? i.e. what's a good strategy for getting a kiss at the end of the date? Or in a movie theater?

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

You could try one of the various kiss closes,david d,MM etc.

 

[suikeisuru]

You need to gradually build it up to the kiss. It has to be all natural and by you fretting over every bit of kino, it won't work. You know how girls would sometimes playfully hit your shoulder when you do something ****y and funny? That's kino. Build up from things like that--a playful--PLAYFUL--hit on her shoulder, putting your hands on hers when emphasizing a point, and immediately holding her hands from the second you meet (I start doing this on the second 'date' as the first is usually just coffee and I keep that one more on a 'friendship' level).

Hope this helps.

 

[Distant Light]

Kino should be no big deal, from when you first met her you should be kinoing and I personally wouldn't go on "dates" because it puts you in the regular average guy courtship. Go on a date and kiss at the end.

What you should try for is to get the kiss from when you first met her, and make sure you start kinoing from the start not adding it when you are on a date. You should be giving kino and then taking it away. Build up sexual tension throughout the whole interaction. Don't be scared to do any type of kino, I like to act as if she is my gf, when it comes to kinoing. Also should you only be doing escalation kino when you are isolated or semi isolated, but you can do regular kino whenever.

 

[Quiksilver]

Originally posted by Distant Light
What you should try for is to get the kiss from when you first met her, and make sure you start kinoing from the start not adding it when you are on a date.

I try to jump into the kino right off the bat on any date, first, second, third, etc..

If you know she's interested, go for the hand-holding RIGHT from the start. If you're walking somewhere, take her hand and start to lead her, don't give her time to object(she won't anyways). Take her by suprise, she'll love it(be spontaneous, to hell with choosing the right moments, itll make you look awkward and kind of weird in all honesty)

On a first date: go for the hand-holding right off the bat, it'll make putting your arm around them 100x easier. If she backs off, well then you know where to start so you're not guessing through the whole date.

On a second date: if you raised the interest level from the first date, i find you can usually get a kiss as soon as you meet them. All I do is hold their hand right from the start, while walking..then stop, so they have to swing around and focus on you...of course u got the EC goin and everythin(sexual eyes), just move in and kiss her, to hell with logic and timing. Don't justify or make excuses either if she askes you after why u did it(they do sometimes, kind of a test in my eyes), the best answer is just the easy: "cause i felt like it". If you get a kiss or whatever right off the bat, keep things rolling, keep going wherever you're going, move to a new subject, etc.(Push/Pull)

Go for the gusto from the first step. If the kiss goes well, i feel great right from the start, and my confidence soars. It also primes her for later on!

It's far easier to put your intentions down right from the start and let them chew over it, then to act sneaky and sort of weird during the date when you try to make more moves. (they expect this ****) do the unexpected