"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how to make a great first impression

Zerotwoonenine

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Take a shower every morning
short shower, refreshes you and set you in the proper mood for the day,an alpha must.
Check your face
shave if necessary, just make sure you dont go out with left overs from last night,wash and dry is a must.
Groom your hair (ear, nose, chest, head, etc.)
ok some hair could show that you are a man,but too much would repel a woman, i am not saying that you should wax it all off, but a trim is a must if you are the hairy type.
Clean your hands
cut your nails, this is one thing many women notice, dont bite them, thats a no no.
Apply lip bal
There is nothing worse than looking at chapped lips, and trust me, no girl will want to kiss them. Find a good lip balm and use it regularly. Just don't put too much on, or it will end up looking like lip gloss.
Dress well
You don't need a suit (unless the occasion calls for it), but you should always wear clean clothes that are wrinkle-free and smell good.
Use some sort of scent
Many guys go to town wearing some sort of fragrance, using everything from scented soap and deodorant to aftershave and cologne. Other guys prefer not to use anything. Like most things in life, the answer is moderation. Pick one scent (otherwise you'll combine fragrances, which will result in a weird smell) and go with it. Just make sure it isn't too strong and make sure not to bathe in it. One final note: Don't skimp on cost here; cheap cologne will act like repellant.
Shine your shoes
ok ever heard of the tip never go out dating women wearing trainers(unless you are in highschool), fine a good pair of shoes, make it nice and this will reflect on you as a person(girls think because they care about shoes), dirty, broken shoes is a nono.

Follow these rules, go out looking like a alpha and you will feel like a alpha, women will do too.:rockon:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't this list stuff every guy should know to do.....
 
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