"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

how to make a girl ur dating to be ur gf

joe45

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 13, 2005
Messages
397
Reaction score
4
Age
44
Location
vanciouver
with this girl she would have never made a move, or ask for relationship-jsut nowing her and talking to her. she is a very quiete, conservative, school nerd type of girl. shes a int student from Malaysia.
not totally sure but i got a feeling she not the type that gonna sleep with the guy anytime soon-not sure when though. she just comes across as very hmm prude like , conservative, but i could be wrong.

yea thanks guys i will go about trying out the advice you guys gave to me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Aaron B

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 8, 2005
Messages
910
Reaction score
29
joe45 said:
with this girl she would have never made a move, or ask for relationship-jsut nowing her and talking to her. she is a very quiete, conservative, school nerd type of girl. shes a int student from Malaysia.
not totally sure but i got a feeling she not the type that gonna sleep with the guy anytime soon-not sure when though. she just comes across as very hmm prude like , conservative, but i could be wrong.

yea thanks guys i will go about trying out the advice you guys gave to me
Have sex with her first, then let her worry about making the relationship happen.

Your job is to make the sex happen, her job is to make the relationship happen.
 
Top