"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"How to Make a Girl Completely Trust You" article

bud_2005

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Doesn't this article go very much against this site. I've seen that it is a big no-no to admit your flaws to a girl because it won't make you look better towards the girl. You will also look less mysterious and less attractive towards the girl. In the article it says if you admit your flaw, you will be pretty much guaranteed sex. What is right?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The idea is you admit some minor relatively insignificant flaw not anything serious which would remove the mystery from the situation.
 

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just get her drunk....much easier
 
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