"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to make a GF "needy for me"

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Whats the best way of making ur girlfriend needy towards you? i guess what im asking is how can i make her interest level rise to the sky like before we were bf and gf.

The way she acts she acts as if she doesnt care about the RL, as a matterfact a few times ive pretended to break up with her and she never ever fights or says anytihng to get me not to break up with her, its like she could care less wether she is with me or not.

How can i make her feel like she has to call me or hear my voice so she can feel good, u know how most needy girls with bf's call their man 24/7 , and want to be with him and spend all of their free time with them, well my gf really seems like she doesnt care, we dont even have that much sex no more, im lucky if i get it once a week.

Im looking for some good advice for getting her IL skyrocketing again after 8 months of being together.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Think about how you've changed since early on in the relationship and what she probably saw then that attracted her. Have you gone from being a prize to be won to being a trophy collecting dust on a shelf?

My advice would be to make sure that other women still find you attractive. This will probably drive her nuts.
 

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RE:

Originally posted by SteveMcQ
Think about how you've changed since early on in the relationship and what she probably saw then that attracted her. Have you gone from being a prize to be won to being a trophy collecting dust on a shelf?

My advice would be to make sure that other women still find you attractive. This will probably drive her nuts.


Jealousy is a powerful tool. Let it be known that you have your eye on other women. I dont know if you're doing anything wrong or what though because I dont know your story. But again, I dont know how many times I've played the jealousy card and have a woman I was dating practically running back to keep a firm grip on me. Enjoy
 
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