How to make a 180...

[European-DJ]

Is it possible to make a 180, when the girls has started loosing interest.

NC does not work for this, NC will be my last option.

The thing is:

The girl was wild about me, wanted to get back together and i don't know what; Now, she is not that interested, doesn't want to see me as much, and lacks attention whenever we are together.

I am in the thoughts that she is "already in another castle", as Nismo would state it, but i am not sure.

Whats your experience, is there any way to do a 180, or should i just let it fade out ?

 

[JohnChops]

in my opinion, i havent gotten a girl to regain interest once it was lost.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

When a chick gets cold on you, it is nigh impossible to turn it around, at least in the immediate future. And even then...

1) Game other girls immediately

2) If you see her out, approach other women

3) Don't stop self-improvement

4) Wait 6 months-1 year and if you've improved in physique, dress, and game, then when you see her, give it another shot, but tease her hard, kino, isolate, escalate. If she sees a "new and improved you", you might have a shot.

Otherwise, it is rare are women goes from hot to cold and back to hot, the mercurial beasts they are.

All of this is null and void if her "coldness" is a calculate move in her girl-game. If so, then she's probably not worth the effort anyway.

They be crazy....

 

[Uncharted]

Hold up - is this chick your ex? You said something about getting back together.

You also said that she is distant when you are together. If she's actually meeting up with you then she hasn't lost ALL interest. I would say pull back for a week or two, then call/text her to go out. If she says yes, great. If not, that's the last conversation you'll ever have with her.

 

[VladPatton]

I would say it's a 70/30 in favor of a no. Once they loose interest (or never have it) you can pretty much exhaust your life trying to impress her with no significant result.

Save time, don't go back.

 

[nismo-4]

Enter the judge.

Is it possible to make a 180, when the girls has started loosing interest.

90% fail rate.

NC does not work for this, NC will be my last option.

It should be your first. Don't hang on to false hope and illusions of her. She already dropped you for a better man and is expecting you to get the hint.

The thing is:

The girl was wild about me, wanted to get back together and i don't know what; Now, she is not that interested, doesn't want to see me as much, and lacks attention whenever we are together.

Women who are interested in you won't confuse you. Women who want to see you will find a way to do so.

I am in the thoughts that she is "already in another castle", as Nismo would state it, but i am not sure.

I'm sure she's been in another castle weeks ago.

Whats your experience, is there any way to do a 180, or should i just let it fade out?

Fade out and upgrade yourself.

Read betwe- Trust your gut. If you get the feeling your princess is in another castle, she usually is.

Case closed.

 

[European-DJ]

Hold up - is this chick your ex? You said something about getting back together.

You also said that she is distant when you are together. If she's actually meeting up with you then she hasn't lost ALL interest. I would say pull back for a week or two, then call/text her to go out. If she says yes, great. If not, that's the last conversation you'll ever have with her.

Yeah, that is her, we are seeing each other again, not exclusivly, but i surely am putting some "feelings" in this.

thanks for the responses guys, i think we are just meant to be fvckbuddies, we see each other like 2-3 times a weak, and the sex is pretty amazing to be honest.
It is just hard to read her, and i guess the reason i doesn't "fell her love", is because i want it more than she does.

I guess i am being needy, which is making me unattractive, i should back out emotionally; the thing is, it is easier said than done.

I will update you guys in a month or so, just to post how thing goes, and have a time stamp on it, for future reference.

Once again, thanks!