"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to maintain status

trojanman88

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I realized that I am A low status male in my dorms and at my school. I think its cuz I walk around with a bad additude alot (not purposefully). I just got issues lol. But yeah so I want to know how to get and maintain status so this won't ever happen to me again cuz this happens to me alot. I lose status withought doing anything that is super wrong or major. I hope that you guys can help... Here is my question What are all the ways to lose status in a social place like a dorm or school?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well you can either get your sh!t together so you don't walk around with a bad attitude. Or just carry yourself properly. Head up, chest out, shoulders back ect... Always have a smile!! Smiling is key with women.
 

Remulak

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HOW TO GAIN SOCIAL STATUS 101:

If anyone looks at you around the dorms say "what're you looking at?" and walk around with clinched fists like you run shyt. If you're out and a girl under an HB 8.5 makes eye contact give her the most repulsed facial expression you can make like your mom just farted in front of you. If you want to be a real bad ass and gain social status ask the hottest girl out in the club on a date. Obviously she will say yes, then be an hour late picking her up and tell her you're taking her on a really cool date and blind fold her. Okay, now take her to a Box Factory, she will probably cry just say "Just kidding you know I love you babe." Then take her to a landfill get real close to her and whisper "I do what I want".
 

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you cannot create status in real-time. you don't walk around consciously monitoring your social status. that's a surefire way to look stupid and come across wierd. f*ck high status. f*ck alpha male. f*ck dominance and all the other phrases people on this site keep repeating to make themselves feel better but have no clue how to apply

focus on having fun, being friendly and maintaining a positive attitude. focus on getting some macking experience under your belt
 

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you cannot create status in real-time. you don't walk around consciously monitoring your social status. that's a surefire way to look stupid and come across wierd. f*ck high status. f*ck alpha male. f*ck dominance and all the other phrases people on this site keep repeating to make themselves feel better but have no clue how to apply
Do you Know how to apply that stuff?

Maybe you don't know what a real Alpha male is
and how he operates in the world.

Have you checked out Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Man?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ready123

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JDA70 said:
Do you Know how to apply that stuff?

Maybe you don't know what a real Alpha male is
and how he operates in the world.

Have you checked out Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Man?
I discovered this site in 2001 so I don't really care what Alpha Male means anymore. I'm more natural game anyway and when I was younger, I learned more from fastseduction than I did from here. But most of the guys who are not good with women have no clue what their weaknesses are to begin with - telling them to act alpha when their social skills are not good enough to attract women just makes them worse and gives them a really f'd up reality. Then they do stuff like blow themselves out on some really basic sh!t and justify it by saying they were acting alpha. These guys are so afraid of rejection the alpha male concept becomes a security blanket. I think TylerDurden commented on this a long time ago when he observed that the community takes a bunch of guys with zero social skills, gives them pick-up concepts they don't know how to apply, and turns them into really mean nasty guys with zero social skills.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jmchavz

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ready123 said:
you cannot create status in real-time. you don't walk around consciously monitoring your social status. that's a surefire way to look stupid and come across wierd. f*ck high status. f*ck alpha male. f*ck dominance and all the other phrases people on this site keep repeating to make themselves feel better but have no clue how to apply

focus on having fun, being friendly and maintaining a positive attitude. focus on getting some macking experience under your belt
ready 123.... MASTER DON JUAN???? Where??? I don't see HIM ANYWHERE!!!!! Guess he doesn't understand the meaning of Leading ( dominance ) :up:
 

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Guess i'll go on right ahead and do 944 posts to become a Master Don Juan myself ....
 
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