How to maintain more than one girl?

[bearfan34201]

Met a really cute blonde friday night, I just went up and talked to her at one of schools football games. Ended up hanging out with her the rest of the night, she asked me for my number(without me saying a damn thing!). Got hers, blah blha. We hung out saturday, Made out.


Anyways, I think she might actually Like me. her friend said while me and the cute blonde we're holidng hands and flirting that we should 'date'.


uhhh lol. I like her, she seems cool. But I'm trying to stay clear away from dating girls, But at the same time I'm getting a little bored with the one night stand things and then me and the girl never talk again. So I want to keep her around but I also want to continue gaming other girls.


Only problem is, I can date her and continue to have other girls on the side. I mean I know it should never be a serious relationship in hs. But that's something I'm not big on, which is cheating.

How would you guys bring it up, Would you just tell her that your not intretsed in dating right now but would like to keep her around? lol


More importantly, How in the hell do you game more than one girl? She goes to another school, But I can still tell ya it would be hard for me to game more than one girl without the other one finding out or some crap. Including I would feel sorta bad? Not if the girl was a complete slut and we just use eachother to hook up, But If I actually got to get to know the girl I would feel bad about seeing other girls. Right now there's 2 girls. I might go out tonight to get a few more numbers just to keep it up with the numbers rollin in.

Any ideas?

 

[Cableguy]

Be honest. Don't give her the impression ya'll are exclusive. From my experience chicks get mad when they are led to believe they're the "only one" and find out they aren't. Quite frankly it goes against common sense to tell a woman you are casually dating others but when done right it can actually amp up her attraction for you because you're a guy who's in demand.

Don't offer her info, give it if she asks and do it in a nice way. There's nothing wrong with dating multiple girls and in fact, it's extremely beneficial in avoiding oneitis.

 

[bearfan34201]

Be honest. Don't give her the impression ya'll are exclusive. From my experience chicks get mad when they are led to believe they're the "only one" and find out they aren't. Quite frankly it goes against common sense to tell a woman you are casually dating others but when done right it can actually amp up her attraction for you because you're a guy who's in demand.

Don't offer her info, give it if she asks and do it in a nice way. There's nothing wrong with dating multiple girls and in fact, it's extremely beneficial in avoiding oneitis.

That's exactly wht I want, To avoid oneitis. I've done really well this summer with girls, and I dont want to lose what I've gained. But if I end up liking the girl, I still want to keep up with others for my own safety. But I also don't want to hurt her feelings. You know? As much as girls are crazy, they are human beings.