She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How is one supposed to spin plates in an exclusive relationship? Especially one where all boundaries have been laid down.captain55 said:
You are welcome. And you are also welcome to make me look like a fool - just look in the mirror first.pipe007 said:Apreciate the honest feedback! I didn't notice that before!
Will work on that
And to Braadh. Lmao dude thanks for the laughs. Yes I analyze women and life, that's why you are here, silly. And please don't talk about my level of success with girls, I don't want to make you look like a fool....
Again, thanks for
The feedback!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You still believe in useless verbal relationship boundaries? smfhsylvester the cat said:
Generic and vauge advice is given by the inexperienced.GettinMyMindRight said:
Dude, I don't give boundaries for the sake of the woman. I give them for my sake.Soolaimon said:
As you can see i am not preaching it. I am against most bull**** that is preached here. There definetly are some of the most enlightening stuff, but most are just people who doesn't know. Just look at your post: just seeing how you are getting aggressive tells more than enough. No need to get so worked up my friend.El Payaso said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Reputation means no **** when we are in a contradictive place like sosuave. Just look in the history and see how many contradictions there are; never ending! Now for example, why did Playherman get banned? He's preaching was pure gold. He's reputation was thrice yours. Still, he got banned. It almost seems like the more green dots you get, the more likely you will get banned. Don't worry about reputation here. It is only for the insecure ones trying to hide their softness looking big. Different thing if you don't care about your reputation and you are getting green dots: that's a whole another thing - the right way.pipe007 said:
http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=222019pipe007 said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
