How to maintain her IL while away?

[The LadyKiller]

This has been a sticking point for me in the past. There is a new HB I met over the weekend, we exchanged numbers and there were good vibes. However, she's flying back home for a week and a half, so I won't be able to see her during that time.

How do I keep the iron burning during this span? In past encounters, things tend to fizzle and are never the same when the girl returns.

 

[Renegade357]

IL is like money in the bank while you're away. It can't go down, only up.

 

[DarkDetective50]

IL is like money in the bank while you're away. It can't go down, only up.

Yes and like money in the bank, some accounts have higher interest rates. If the time span is too long, her IL in another guy's account will grow higher than the OP's. If it's a week and a half that she'll be away, I think one short text convo half way through her time away would be fine. Just to check on her, how her Christmas was...blah...blah...blah. Don't get too deep into the convo though or you risk saying something stupid.

 

[JoeMarron]

"Absence makes the heart grow fonder"

 

[Dgwizdal]

No text "conversations" - Short, playful banter every other day or longer. Take a while to respond if she initiates. You'd like to use this time to raise her interest in you. The less she has communication with you - the more her hamster will spin. It's only a week and a half.

 

[The LadyKiller]

Thank you for the insights. I don't know her really well, we've only spoken twice. However, the good vibes were there. My phone was spazzing when we were exchanging numbers, she said it's good I'll have her number so I can practice texting properly :crackup: .