"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to maintain fvck buddy if she wants more

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GuanYu

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I'll admit when it comes to my fb's I simply don't care. I'm usually straight forward with them and for the most part they're cool with just keeping things sexual. However, one of my ex gf's is now what I consider to be one of my "teammates" even though I think she wants something more.

A few weeks ago we hook up after a few weeks of not speaking. We screw, say our "nice to see you again" and keep it moving. Last week she treats me to lunch (I didn't think anything of it) and now this week I'm planning on screwing her again.

But here's the catch...

She's been texting me everyday and since I know her well I know she assumes that I have real plans with her instead of just fvckin, but that's not true. In fact, I've basically put her in a slvt category and have no intentions of taking her on a "date" nor spending any money on her. (even tho she got me a christmas present, I didn't give her one and refused to accept hers but she left it at my place anyway)

She hasn't said anything to imply she wants to get back together, but I know how she operates. I need help on how to be smooth about keeping her on my team. She texted me wanting to know what my plans were on Wednesday (the day I set aside to fvck her)

So far I haven't replied and think maybe that's the best solution. The last time I was direct with her she kinda ignored it and that's when she treated me to lunch instead of her coming over to my house to screw. (I had to work that evening and she waited to long to meet)

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There really isn't any way except to just tell her the truth: that you want sex, and absolutely nothing more.

Anything more vague than that will have her filling in the blanks with false hope and wishful thinking, and making things more complicated than they have to be.
 
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Tell her you thought it was a mutual f*ck buddy agreement and u never had feelings, in essence, the truth.

If she empties her feelings just say ur not looking for a relationship, but be firm aswell.
 
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How long have u had her? You can't keep these girls around 4ever unless you lie to them. If you want to be upfront & honest about just wanting a jumpoff situation with her, thats cool for about 3 - 4 mos. After that shes gonna either catch feelings for you, or hook up with another dude. Thats whats gonna happen with women is theyre gonna want more. Youll either have to lie & cheat on them, or let them go.
 
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Well we started out as FB's for about 2 months then per usual she wanted more so I made her my "girlfriend" for about 6 months then dumped her since she's 20 yrs old and still in her party stage. She's also one of those facebook/myspace ho's that has guys on deck.

She started contacting me a week after I dumped her so I invited her over and we screw. So now I'm trying to figure out how to keep her at bay because she's starting all of this dumb sh*t again about wanting me to hang out with her family. I still want to bang her tho. She's boring when it comes to sex, but it's the best head I've ever received.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just be honest with her. If you want to prolong it, wait until she gives you "the talk" about it, then tell her what you can provide, if she's into you, she'll agree with going along with it, UNTIL she finds herself another alternative (new guy), or she gets tired and decides she no longer wants to be your toy. That will buy you some time, but nothing permanent.
 
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