"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to look older?

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For girls its easy, makeup. What about for guys? Is it about hairstyle, clothing, or it just depends on your face?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hows your facial hair... a couple days of not shaving makes me look older....if you havent go enough stubble for that then shave EVERYDAY for a while and it will come back thicker and thicker
 
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lots of ways. facial hair is one. i used to have really short hair which looked shyt on me - looked far too young. then i grew my hair out. i don't know how that would work for other people though.

i've started wearing a silver curb chain - just to show me that i'm becoming more of a pimp ;)

jaw muscles:- big one. clench your teeth together for 1 minute as hard as you can, until you feel your jaw going numb (might be more than a minute). do this at least 3 times every day and you'll get a stronger jaw, which makes you look older. look at brad pitt's. i've been doing it for about 2 weeks so far and i'm already seeing a difference.

clothing too - as long as you don't wear trackies you should be alright

last thing, and probably the most important. start working out and eat more protein. that way, you gain testosterone and naturally become more masculine. plus you'll become more muscular - look older
 
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if you havent go enough stubble for that then shave EVERYDAY for a while and it will come back thicker and thicker
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wow thats a myth. your hair won't grow any faster. it will apear thicker because of the angle, not because it is. So it can only become so much thicker not infinte thickness or you'd see old people who have been shaving all thier lifes with hairs with the diameters of dimes...

hair is controled by your genes.



jaw muscles:- big one. clench your teeth together for 1 minute as hard as you can, until you feel your jaw going numb (might be more than a minute). do this at least 3 times every day and you'll get a stronger jaw, which makes you look older. look at brad pitt's. i've been doing it for about 2 weeks so far and i'm already seeing a difference.
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Yes it will help develop your muscle but if you have fat around your cheecks and jaw and you can't already see definition it won't help and can even hurt by making you look chubbier.

So lose wieght and enjoy your time in youth.

last thing, and probably the most important. start working out and eat more protein. that way, you gain testosterone and naturally become more masculine. plus you'll become more muscular - look older
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yea and people with higher testosterone are shown to "age" quicker meaning die quicker. But hell thats your choice. Why not enjoy what you have while you have it.? Or you could always cmoke cigarettes cause they make you look old and sophisticated.? I hear wrist slashers are in fashion this summer too... why not join the club and end it right now... Common. Grab the letter opener... yep... Now just make a verticle gash with your wrist. Not horozontile or verticle. you won't lose enough blood.
Verticle.,... now while you still can see go ove to the cabnet and take about 35 aspirin. :D.

i've started wearing a silver curb chain - just to show me that i'm becoming more of a pimp
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I'm going to stop here... but I oculd go on and on... but I'm just telling you things you already known.
 
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Short hair .."usually" looks older IMO

Facial hair ... except if uve got really fine teenage stubble (like still developing) like me can make u look younger

Jewerelly ..rings / chains

Fashion... less sport gear/street wear.. more designer wear,.. and shoes instead of trainers

Look confindent ..keep your head up and make eye contact when you talk too people

Lose weight .. skinnier people are more likely too look older

get a Tan
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I dont know if this is true but I friggin heard that smoking ciggerates can make you look older because it ages you quick.. Now, dont go off smoking ciggerates. As I said, I don't know.
 
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I dont know if this is true but I friggin heard that smoking ciggerates can make you look older because it ages you quick.. Now, dont go off smoking ciggerates. As I said, I don't know.
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Maybe this is coincidal but i heard shooting yourself in the head or stabbing yourself with a hypodermic needle also has the same effect.


Short hair .."usually" looks older IMO
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I have the exact opposite oppinion. I find it matters on your head type. If you have a rounder head you'll want longer hair on top. Narrow defined head, you'll want short hair.

The biggest thing to make you look older is pimples... yes pimples. You don't want the whitehead types. Mainly because they make you look teenage. But pimples and in general treatments from them tend to roughen your face. If you want to skip pimples you can rub sandpaper on your face...

The BEST SUREPROOF WAY... time.
 
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Originally posted by CapiCrimini
Maybe this is coincidal but i heard shooting yourself in the head or stabbing yourself with a hypodermic needle also has the same effect.
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Really? What kind of an idiot would do that? Perhaps you. You should go try it now. Hopefully you do so it can put an end to your stupid spamming

AS I SAID, I DON'T KNOW IF WHAT I SAID WAS TRUE I JUST HEARD THAT. Next time actually read the whole post, not half.

Moron.
 
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oh yeah the jaw thing is true. Because of my intense training, i usually clench my teeth together, unconsciously and because of that i have a muscular jaw. The low bodyfat also helps bring out the "squary" face more, wich makes me look more mature. I'm 21 but people guess i'm 24-25.
 
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Originally posted by Alex_L
Short hair .."usually" looks older IMO

Facial hair ... except if uve got really fine teenage stubble (like still developing) like me can make u look younger

Jewerelly ..rings / chains

Fashion... less sport gear/street wear.. more designer wear,.. and shoes instead of trainers

Look confindent ..keep your head up and make eye contact when you talk too people

Lose weight .. skinnier people are more likely too look older

get a Tan
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This advice is solid.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AS I SAID, I DON'T KNOW IF WHAT I SAID WAS TRUE I JUST HEARD THAT. Next time actually read the whole post, not half.
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I understand that Jack. I actually do believe I've heard the same thing. but I think it might be more myth then fact.

I was commenting on how stupid it would be to smoke just to look older. And If you followed my info, you'd die... and after your dead you age pretty damn fast. He never said how old he wanted to look.:p
 
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