How to level up my club game?

[powersize]

Looking for some decent advices from fellows here on how to level up my club game. I am just back from the club where a lot of good young chicks were, but I did not even talk with any of them, neither as I even had a desire for it.

I am super uncomfortable now in approaching them in a club especially on a dance floor. The whole stuff just feels weird for me and I cannot relax properly regardless of alcohol. I do not know how to approach them without looking weird - some dudes come from behind, pull them in and that is how they start, some come from the side and start talking first. Some dudes do not dance at all and meet chicks on lounge zones.

Moreover the older I become the more I think how trashy all of this chicks are, kissing and dancing with multiple dudes per night, selling themselves, fking in toilets and so on. For me this is definitely not a place where you can meet a quality girl, but you know, sometimes you just wanna have fun - so that is why I am going there, without expecting anything.

I know that the problem is probably in my head and I overthink all of this, so instead I just need to relax and enjoy the moment and the process. Maybe it is a wrong mindset that I have everytime I enter the club. But man, I am just tired of seeing some weird dude making out with some hot slutty 20 yo btches instead of me.

At my age I have my sh1t together. I am 6 ft tall, 212 lbs and 16% body fat, hitting the gym regularly, working my ass as AVP in investment bank. I know I am higher quality that most of the guys in this clubs, but I do not know man I just never been successful there.

Any advices?

 

[Scars]

Clubs can be annoying and definitely not my favorite place to pick up women, but if you're gonna go that route I'd say approach them on the dance floor, that's where I had the best luck. I try to feel them out a little bit first though, see how they react with my dancing close to them, and if you make eye contact several times it's usually a good indicator she'll be responsive. I'll make eye contact with them and reach my hand out, if they take it then you're good to go. This is a good way to not come off creepy, better than coming in from behind and grinding some random chick you never met before.

Although I'd be lying if I said I've never been turned down before. It happened recently actually. A girl rolled her eyes and basically ran away when I tried to dance with her. It happens. You can't let it ruin your night though. Just go there with the mindset to have a good time, without too many expectations. The more you go, the comfortable you will get. You'll also start to notice the same faces, which also opens another avenue of conversation.