"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to let women know your're interested, and unavaiable at the same time

jhonny9546

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Hi friends, if there's one area I'd like to improve on, it's telling engaged women understand that they're attractive, or rather, giving them the appropriate compliments when necessary, letting them know I'm interested. But given their situation, I won't make a "move".

As much as I've shared here, the criticism I've received has made me realize that my behavior doesn't let women know I'm interested in them, that I find them attractive, but that they're unattainable, and that I respect their situation, and that I won't compromise with women for commitment.

So I find it difficult when these women flirt, showing up to receive validation or compliments.

How do you do it appropriately, depending on the situation?

These are the women you encounter every day, at work, at the dentist, at the gym, at the supermarket, at the laundromat, at the neighbors, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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