How to let her know she has competition?

[bluehanger]

Hi all, long time reader, first time poster.

I've read through the bible material, but could you guys give me an example of a sure-fire way to show (cause verbalizing is AFC) an interested girl that you like her back, but you've still got your eyes on other girls too?

 

[theunflushables]

Start talking about these other girls. Make plans to meet up with her and bring said girls with you.

 

[GuanYu]

flirt with her, make sexual advances (once you get a good enough rapport), don't smother her with attention, be aloof, don't call/text too often, etc...

When you do speak, don't provide too much information but just enough so she doesn't think you're hiding things. Maintain mysterious identity so that she's always wondering what you're up to. If she ever asks what you're doing, be direct but don't provide too many details.

Example..

Her: What you doin?
You: Watching the basketball game

No need to come outright and tell her there's other b!tches that you're trying to fvck. That'll only give her the impression you're an a$$hole and she'll probably stop talking to you. Do the things I already mentioned and she'll probably think she has competition without you telling her straight up. That'll make her more attracted to you.

 

[slickaz]

take her out on a "date"
half way through talk to her about her hott friends, and if they're single.
bahahahaha.

Listen dude, you shouldnt think about telling her she has competition, she'll find out for herself as she gets to know you.
You cant ever lock yourself down to a chic quickly. So play you're game, let her find out for her self.
However some pointers, dont give her complete attention when you're hanging out, let your eyes wander around and look at the hottest girls. ONLY THE HOTTEST. Girls KNOW when you're checking out girls, trust me.
When you're at a club/party with her, give her attention, then pull it away give it to a female friend. Only mingle with the hottest women if you can. that'll show her you have alot of female attention..
but you cant TELL a chic anything, its gotta be observed by her.

 

[LDBaha]

One thing I'm doing is filling my iPod with pics of me w/ girls or just hot girl-friends of mine...

For some reason girls always grab my iPod touch and check my pictures!

 

[WC2]

One thing I'm doing is filling my iPod with pics of me w/ girls or just hot girl-friends of mine...

For some reason girls always grab my iPod touch and check my pictures!

Dammmmn pimp!

......

You can only create an artificial vision of yourself for so long.

It's only a matter of time till those in your life find out. And then all your integrity goes down the drain.

Women know when a man gets his.

I swear they have a c0ck radar when it comes to men. Without even meeting a man, they will flock to the one that gets the most women.

Putting pictures on your ipod won't land you extra women.

 

[LDBaha]

Yes it will. It's like that guy that leaves all the messages from girls on his answering machine or all the texts in his phone.

Its not fake, the girls in my ipod have been/are girls that I am dating/dated. I never said FAKE IT, just show it be clever...

If you fake it they can sense it, for some reason they know when It's fake they really have a sixth sense. When they realize it's fake they'll lose the attraction

Just become a ladies man, either have a lot of girl friends or lost of dates. Either way it makes them doubt that they can keep you... which is hot.

In my personal experience, i have never been one of those that spin a lot of plates at the same time, but I do hang around with other hot girls, flirt with them even when I am dating a different chick.

And of course it won't land you extra woman. But I can assure you that when a girl that likes me picks my ipod and checks the pics she thinks "okay who are all these chicks?" and that's goooodddd

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Habla sin hablando - speak without speaking.

Imply it with your behavior. Never overtly tell (or telegraph by your actions) a woman she's in competition for your attention. Allow her to come to the conclusion that your attention is in demand. Her imagination is the best tool in your DJ toolbox. Learn how to use it.

Limit your availability to her. Let her call go to voicemail and call her back half an hour to an hour later. NEVER immediately respond to texts. Increase value through scarcity. Be responsibly, but unavoidably in demand. The less available you appear to be, the more available you "might" be for a competitor.

 

[PokerStar]

rollo - you never cease to amaze me. :rockon: