how to let her down easy?????

[golf299]

on new years i made out with a girl. before that, we were just friends (there may have been some interest on her part). while i was making out with her i was thinking to myself "this is good experience." so, there was no real interest on my part.

now, she has mad one-itis for me. she's told a mutual friend how "into me" she is and everything like that.

im trying to nip this in the bud, so i invited her to lunch today to tell her its not gonna happen. what's the easiest way to let her down easy? i hate doing this!

i was thinking of something along the lines of "hb7, i dont want to lead you on so i need you to know that what happened on new years is something that just happened on new years. i dont know how you feel about it, but thats where im coming from."

thanks guys!

 

[golf299]

c'mon guys, this lunch is in about an hour...

 

[NatureGuy]

Your approach sounds good and honest to me. But I assume you want to retain her
as a friend? Then tell her so.

 

[LikRetsam]

Let her down easy... lol. Won't happen sorry. It doesn't work that way.

Tell her you saw that as just a hook up and would like to leave it at that. You're not looking for an exclusive relationship with her but if she wants a "physical friendship" that's fine.

good luck!