I recently started seeing my ex again. Things were amazing the first couple times, although last time we hung out not so much so. We're about to go out tonight and hopefully things go well. I want to make sure I leave her wanting more though, any advice? Also she does this thing were if she's had a good time then she'll text me telling me she did like 30 minutes after I leave. I was thinking about not responding if she does that tonight,
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What you could do to keep her wanting more is if the date is going really well,then cut it off early. The better the date goes,the sooner you should end it. Kind of like watching a tv show that you're really into,where things are intriguing and interesting,and just when something exciting is about to happen and you're on the edge of you seat,the show goes off.
Also,that idea about whether or not to text her back if she text you saying that she had a good time,you can ignore it if you want,however,if I were you instead of ignoring it,I would send her a text back saying,"Well,if you think that was fun,wait until you see what I have planned for you next time"
Of course,she's going to ask you what it is,but don't tell her. Keep her in suspense. This way she won't be able to wait to see you again.
As for what the "exciting" thing is you have planned,I'm sure you can come up with something.
Also,that idea about whether or not to text her back if she text you saying that she had a good time,you can ignore it if you want,however,if I were you instead of ignoring it,I would send her a text back saying,"Well,if you think that was fun,wait until you see what I have planned for you next time"
Of course,she's going to ask you what it is,but don't tell her. Keep her in suspense. This way she won't be able to wait to see you again.
As for what the "exciting" thing is you have planned,I'm sure you can come up with something.
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I disagree with this. If you're having a good time, then you also cut it off for yourself. If you're having a bad time though, maybe you're not really interested in your ex after all.Igetit! said:What you could do to keep her wanting more is if the date is going really well,then cut it off early. The better the date goes,the sooner you should end it. Kind of like watching a tv show that you're really into,where things are intriguing and interesting,and just when something exciting is about to happen and you're on the edge of you seat,the show goes off.
next the ex............very few people last beyond the breakup sex phase.
In time she WILL grind your last nerve as I am sure there was a reason you broke up in the first place.
Forget the dates and enjoy the sex.........then split. U want her wanting more.........dont see her for a while.
In time she WILL grind your last nerve as I am sure there was a reason you broke up in the first place.
Forget the dates and enjoy the sex.........then split. U want her wanting more.........dont see her for a while.
Thanks guys, things went pretty well although I didn't get to escalate the Kino as much as I would have liked. COD we didn't really break up for any reason we go to school together and the whole time we were dating (over the summer) she was in Cali and I was in Maryland, so things just were awkward when we got back. O and 3 months we never had sex....which is generally not the case usually it takes me about 3 dates but o well.
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i am up to the same thing with an ex of mine, not that i plan anything to happen, i just try to keep her guessing. i never say bye to her when i get my boy, she screams out 'bye' to me like - thanks for saying goodbye-
she also mentions things to me that warrent any real reason - you know i liked this better about you - or this - with her i was clean shaven, now i keep it a little shadow, which others say looks much better, yet she says - ya know - it looked better the other way - i also recently stuck an old eye brow ring in with a bar - she goes - it looked better with a ring - which most should know it should be a bar anyways - i have been to the dentist recently and she wanted to see my teeth - thing is i wonder - why would someone with no interest any more show me any intestest in any thing? ....unless they still had intestest....
she also mentions things to me that warrent any real reason - you know i liked this better about you - or this - with her i was clean shaven, now i keep it a little shadow, which others say looks much better, yet she says - ya know - it looked better the other way - i also recently stuck an old eye brow ring in with a bar - she goes - it looked better with a ring - which most should know it should be a bar anyways - i have been to the dentist recently and she wanted to see my teeth - thing is i wonder - why would someone with no interest any more show me any intestest in any thing? ....unless they still had intestest....
Ok so like i said I thought things were going well but didn't escalate the Kino, then I got a text from a friend who also happens to be her roommate and it says "it wasn't a date she really wants to be friends and that's it". I'm going to next her, but I can't help but to feel now that I'm going to get some oneitis and not want to. It wasn't difficult the first time, because it was mutual but I really thought things were going well this time. I've read some stuff about Ganji games on here, what's your thoughts, on that. Or should I stop pursuing just because of this one text. As long as I'm not stopping the world for her?
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hondo928 said:I recently started seeing my ex again. Things were amazing the first couple times, although last time we hung out not so much so. We're about to go out tonight and hopefully things go well. I want to make sure I leave her wanting more though, any advice? Also she does this thing were if she's had a good time then she'll text me telling me she did like 30 minutes after I leave. I was thinking about not responding if she does that tonight,
Get her addicted to your d*ck.