"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to leave door open with a girl you are sleeping with?

jnMissouri

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As in you want to leave it open to keep banging later/occasionally, since you are more interested in new girls but want to keep this one as a side lay.

Even though she is looking for a relationship, and knows you just want sex she still sleeps with you.

Do I tell her I just want to be friends? Do I tell her I still need time to decide, or ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If she nags about being 'more' then you can pull the LJBF line and say something like 'let's see where this is going, I'm not ready for a relationship etc.'
If she doesn't nag about that, don't say anything, just call her up when you want to smash her.
 

mikey2012

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Don't tell her jack. Keep her guessing . When you want her just call her ... Telling her you are going leaving the door open is for cuckolds.
 

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Got it, only text her if she texts me OR I want to bang her.
 
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