"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to leave door open with a girl you are sleeping with?

jnMissouri

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As in you want to leave it open to keep banging later/occasionally, since you are more interested in new girls but want to keep this one as a side lay.

Even though she is looking for a relationship, and knows you just want sex she still sleeps with you.

Do I tell her I just want to be friends? Do I tell her I still need time to decide, or ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she nags about being 'more' then you can pull the LJBF line and say something like 'let's see where this is going, I'm not ready for a relationship etc.'
If she doesn't nag about that, don't say anything, just call her up when you want to smash her.
 

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Don't tell her jack. Keep her guessing . When you want her just call her ... Telling her you are going leaving the door open is for cuckolds.
 

jnMissouri

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Got it, only text her if she texts me OR I want to bang her.
 
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