How to last longer?

[DJ follower]

Im still a virgin but when the day comes I dont really want to just last 5 min and thats it. I would like to do it for at least 30-40 min or even more. Anyone know how this can be achieved?

 

[hardwork]

Try rubbing one out beforehand with the soothing salve of Anything Else.

 

[xi phi pi]

You could also try doing what many other people have done before...

USE THE SEARCH BUTTON!

 

[Charisma]

Practice ? The more you do it, the longer you'll last, it's probably because you get too excited, try to dim down a bit (it's hard at first).

 

[CapiCrimini]

well since you havn't had sex... I'll have to tell you the best way is... have sex... the more you have it the less excited you will become about it. That doesn't mean your sexuality will turn down. I got a massage a few days back and popped a boner, whereas I can watch naked ladies and not pop one.[Unless there doing sensual acts and nude.]

It's all a state of mind, literally. How to last longer there are tons of exercises. Do a search. I'd tell you a few I've heard but i can't tell you if they work or not. The biggest tip I can give is GO SLOW... meaning don't go like the little japanese dudes in pornos[It's funny, anyone else notice you can't tell if a Japanese girl is screaming or moaning?]

besides going slow, foreplay, it won't make you last longer but the girl will be hott so she will climax sooner then if you didn't. I dunno. Biggest tip would be to not focus on it.

~capi crimm

 

[Alpine]

I think there's a manual method, but not sure of the details as ever never needed to use it

Somthing like pressing the head of the penis just before reaching climax. You can also hold your balls down. You can't shoot, or it's a lot harder with them lowered.

My favourite, think your shagging (insert your most repulsive female here)

More to the point. It's no big deal. Some older bird will show you the ropes soon enough, Ahh memories!

As you get more advanced the old ESO method is worth learning, and Tantra if your a bit of a hippy type.

 

[CapiCrimini]

My favourite, think your shagging (insert your most repulsive female here)

yes... but then you can go limp... Last time I heard that wasn't the 'in' thing to do whilst shagging a hot girl. She'll think she's not pleasing you, your gay, or need viagra

 

[DJD]

I've only had that problem when I was in your shoes (very new to the sex game). Classic advice is to 'think about baseball' - don't ask me why I've also seen references to exercising the PC muscle - which controls things like urine flow - to delay ejac. There also are creams out there for this that I've seen when purchasing condoms, but I have no direct experience with them. If I were you, I'd do a web search on "PC muscle" and I'm sure you'll find information out there somewhere on this. Also, controlling your breath rate (slower) and depth (deeper) will help you stay a bit more relaxed, and this should help you too.

I am significantly older than you, so I will give you another piece of advice or knowledge that one usually only gets from experience - which is that the 30-40 minutes thing (or longer) is overrated/overestimated by men. I can do that with no problem at all, but I have to tell you, it's not all that appreciated by most women because I usually don't need to go that long (unless she can multiple). If you're 'hittin' it' right, most women will not take nearly that long to get off, and although some of them will want to keep going for the multiple orgasms if they're capable, a lot of them cannot really do this, and so she'll be ready for you to orgasm reasonably soon after she does... and if you don't, she will ask you "what's wrong?" thinking that you don't find her that exciting or something.

 

[seabreeze]

So true, DJD!

Seabreeze

 

[Shiftkey]

There are condoms that have special cream in them that numbs your d1ck.

 

[Mike24ct]

How to last longer

My advice is to use the extra-strength type condoms. Yes, they are thicker so you get less sensation, but the upside to that is you can last WAY longer. I lost my virginity a few months ago and used those style condoms. I was able to go and go like some porn star lol. I acutally outlasted her. We had to finally stop when she started getting sore. She said, "Are you sure you've never done this before?"

 

[squirrels]

-Wear ANY condom.

-Get your first one quick...then recoup while you stimulate her, then give it to her. If you cvm, your second time will take a lot longer. If you're good for a third after that, you'll be lucky if you can cvm at all.

-Think of seagulls.

-Learn to control your muscles. Everyone preaches the "PC muscle" and "Kegels", but I've never nailed that. Learn to relax and not let your body get wrapped up in the sensation.

-DON'T WORRY so much about it. The stress really CAN get to you.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by DJD
If you're 'hittin' it' right, most women will not take nearly that long to get off, and although some of them will want to keep going for the multiple orgasms if they're capable, a lot of them cannot really do this

Wow, you must be really smart. (sarcasm)

ANY FEMALE is capable of having mind blowing orgams, squirt, and have multiple orgasms. Just because you haven't had success doesn't mean there is something wrong with them. Something is wrong with you. You need to know what your doing. Trust me, I can make ANY FEMALE, have multiple orgasms and squirt.

 

[bbestar]

Step 1

Get married

Step 2

Sex

Step 3

Practice techniques to last longer..

go old fashion way.. woohoo