"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

how to last longer?

gimmeyofonenumba

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
520
Reaction score
2
Location
GA
guys, I seem to have a problem from keeping from busting too early, anyone have any tips? there has only been one time where i went at least 15 minutes before busting.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

MagnuM

Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2003
Messages
188
Reaction score
0
Age
39
15 minutes is good. its all practice man. meh don't take my word for. just enter a search query on google and you'll come up tons of info on what you are looking for.

on another note. if you are just bored check out this site.

www.talksexwithsue.com

i am sure there is something on there about it.
 
Joined
Mar 18, 2006
Messages
3,956
Reaction score
37
Think about the latest stock quotes or sport statistics!!! It's a mental thing!
 

spesmilitis

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2006
Messages
1,490
Reaction score
6
yup, sexual stamina is mental, not physical.

Try masterbaiting without porn. You'll feel like you can last forever.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

wolf116

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2006
Messages
1,661
Reaction score
16
Just hope your brain doesn't connect the thought of dead puppies with arousal and orgasm. It may create a sick fetish.
 

azanon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2006
Messages
2,291
Reaction score
41
You can only think about one thing at any one time. Its better to focus on the quality of s** you're dishing out than doing mind tricks for lasting longer. You could theoretically do a 20 minute long montenous fvck and it likely won't get her off. But a 5-7 minute long just bangin' the s*** out of her, starring her down alpha male like, and really getting into it will usually get her to c** np, especially with good previous foreplay.
 

comic_relief

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
3,282
Reaction score
49
Location
Baltimore, MD
I usually just tighten my muscles in my body so I won't release and just pound away. I usually go for a half hour that way. It's when my body is relaxed do I release.

Plus, I tell my body, "Don't release" and it listens to me.

I usually last for a half hour to an hour.

comic_relief
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top