"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to last longer- i finish very fast

joe45

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is there any stuff out there for guys in their late 20's to last longer. i mean i can get an erection, but when i have sex i cannot last very long- like 2-3 minutes-why i am inexperience hehe

i just wonderin is there anything one can take-would viagra would cialis, i mean i can get erection, but then i *** in 2 minutes. i can't hold it and then go to differ positions and styles. just one position and then thats it.

i also heard of silagra.

so is there anyting out there for it or what can i do to last longer or try what
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I remember someone told me about just saying NASCAR NASCAR, and thinking about the cars going around the track when I'm about to go, and no. I'm not some hillbilly and I didn't think it up on my own.

But I've used it since I was 14, alot of guys have problems with it. I would say most do. So dont feel alone. Just a matter of gaining control of it, and that just takes expierence.

But hell, I still use the Nascar trick. But it's almost a ritual now, its weird, but it works for me.

And I had a girlfriend that took Viagra with me once, cause we heard it would blow our ****ing eyebrows off. All it did was make me feel like I was geeked out of my gord, and I use to be a serious subscriber to better living through illegal chemistry if you know that I mean. I ****ing hated it. I got hard, but it was pleasant. But it works for whole lot of people, I'm not sure it has to do with stamina though. Someone else probably knows more about it than me.
 

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LOL at the NASCAR method :)

I don't like methods like that (e.g. thinking about something else), or chemical methods (Viagra from people who don't have ED, alcohol).

Really, you don't want to be relying on "crutches".

Kegels are all you need. I can last as long as I want and go as many times as I want, every time, after doing them for 30 minutes a day for 5 months.
 
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The simplest method is tell her the first one is always fast and hit it again. Why should she have multiple o's and you only have 1? I'm 50 and can go 4 times a night. She gets 10, and I get 4-still doesn't seem fair.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Use the kegel exercises to strengthen your PC muscle. This allows you to have much better control over your orgasms. After you have built up your PC muscle some, try this: during intercourse if you feel yourself about to cvm, strongly contract your PC muscle and breath in. Do this as many times as necessary.

If you keep working those PC muscles you should be able to reach the point where orgasm is a completely conscious process.
 

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when you jerk off and feel you are about to come, stop for a few moments, then carry on. go for a bit longer each time, atleast for a while. i actually did it so much that now, i don't finish most of the time.
 

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also, im always worried she'll get pregnant if i shoot so that helps me hold it in!
 

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If you cvm so fast, then just have her get you off, then play with her until you are ready to go again. Most guys can go twice in an amount of time that a woman would consider simply good foreplay.

ps - when she tells you that she doesn't swallow, act surprised and a little disappointed, like you get that all the time. That will set her mind in motion and give her a way to later show you how much she likes you.
 

Kevin Feng

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Try masturbating a lot.

Find a mate that's a nympho, it'll desensitize you to the sex itself. Try masturbating before the actual sex itself. When I first started going at it I used to jerk off in the bathroom beforehand and I would last wayyy longer, though the experience wasn't as enjoyable.

-Kevin
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keep banging the same girl over and over again and eventually you will last longer and longer.
 
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