"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to Know She is Interested (2012)

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1) You text her and she replies within 1 minute.
2) She sends a 3 part text message.
3) She sends 4 text messages in a row.
4) She texts three exclamation points after every comment.
5) You get smiley faces after every comment.
6) You don't reply to her text and she freaks out with a pouty face.
7) She texts you a heart.


(Number yours here).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. she has sex with me.
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
1. she has sex with me.
^The ultimate IOI.
That is the ideal one. But other decent ones include....


8. In person, she tries to keep the conversation going.

9. In the club, she grinds you face to face with her body pressed against yours.

9. a.) She also pulls your hands to her boobs or more....

10. When seated at the bar or at a party, she turns her body to face you, i.e. her knees are pointed at you.

10. a.) If her knees are pointed at you, she's talkative and smiley, AND her legs are open, text your roomate, tell him to get out of the house, and start taking mental notes for the lay report you are going to post on SS from your laptop at 3am while she's asleep on your chest lol.
 
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dude bro all u gotta do is show the ALPHA then ur gunna make her c TITE 4 win at the BONE ZONE :rockon: but 4 reals i dont like txt its borin i just get her digits then call her up i no how to talk her into gettin on the wild thang :kick: bet shes into me THEN! :cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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11) When at a party, club, or other social function she's always hanging out nearby, grabs the seat next to you, etc.

12) She's wary of offending you, uninterested chicks don't care about pissing you off.

12a) Unless she's ripping on you in a playful manner.
 

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If you wait for a girl to fawn over you like this before going out with her (or trying to go out with her) will net one date/meet/hook-up a year for the average guy.
 

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bigneil said:
1) You text her and she replies within 1 minute.
2) She sends a 3 part text message.
3) She sends 4 text messages in a row.
4) She texts three exclamation points after every comment.
5) You get smiley faces after every comment.
6) You don't reply to her text and she freaks out with a pouty face.
7) She texts you a heart.


(Number yours here).
Sounds like Nice Guy talk.

You wanna know she's interested? She accepts you dates and goes along with what YOU want to do.

It is that simple! Anything less, Her interest is LOW.
 

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JD57 said:
If you wait for a girl to fawn over you like this before going out with her (or trying to go out with her) will net one date/meet/hook-up a year for the average guy.

for real. these kind of IOIs rarely happen.

most girls are will play the game/ hard to get/not be too available, etc.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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13.) Responds positively to your sexual innuendos/provides some innuendos herself.

14.) She touches you to make a point or convey an emotion. i.e. she slaps you in a playful way when you tease her. she touches your shirt when she says "i like this shirt" or something along those lines. looks for reasons to touch you, like if she asks to see your phone or something, instead of waiting for you to hand it to her she brings your arm closer to her so she can see it. she also responds positively when you touch her. makes up reasons for you to touch her/get close to her, i.e. she'll be like oh sit next to me so that creepy dude doesnt try to sit next to me, or so that fake ***** doesnt sit next to me etc. always creating scenarios that end in you having to touch her or get close to her

15.) shows playful jealousy. like if it comes out in conversation that you helped a girl in another class with homework or something she'll be like ohh you're a homework slut huh? or something playful along those lines.

16.) i cant recall a girl ever mentioning a man of any kind when we talk. not an ex, not a classmate, not even a "friend". you are the only man being talked about when you guys converse. its like no other man exists. i assume this isnt done by accident.

17.) you constantly find yourself in situations where your penis ends up in her mouth, vagina, or ass.

im not sure about the last one so don't quote me on it
 

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MisterD said:
16.) i cant recall a girl ever mentioning a man of any kind when we talk. not an ex, not a classmate, not even a "friend". you are the only man being talked about when you guys converse. its like no other man exists. i assume this isnt done by accident.
Yes, this has happened always. Even for chicks with boyfriends or husbands, amazing what selective memory does.

MisterD said:
17.) you constantly find yourself in situations where your penis ends up in her mouth, vagina, or ass.

im not sure about the last one so don't quote me on it
Haha.. .the ultimate IOI. :rockon:
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
1. she has sex with me.
This is as good of an IOI as you're gonna get.

These other ones I've seen are cool, but no matter what, nothing's in stone. Call these IOI's what you want, but don't overanalyze. You still gotta make a move. Always judge by actions instead of words. Judge's orders.

Oh yes, my favorite IOI is when the girl gets with me in chambers.
 

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bigneil said:
1) You text her and she replies within 1 minute.
2) She sends a 3 part text message.
3) She sends 4 text messages in a row.
4) She texts three exclamation points after every comment.
5) You get smiley faces after every comment.
6) You don't reply to her text and she freaks out with a pouty face.
7) She texts you a heart.


(Number yours here).
This is some stalkin stuff. Whenever girls do this to me I'm quick to drop them.
 
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