"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to know if shes interested.

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Ok heres the situation. I met this girl about a month ago and she lives right next door to one of my good friends. this girl is smokin hot definitely a 9 or better and shes a senior in nursing school. Well i think she is interested but i find myself wonderin how to go about gettin her to do something with me. She gave me her phone # on myspace and i never did call her. Whenever i see her i talk to her and she seems interested bc well i happen to be good lookin too. dont ask how i know im good lookin bc i just do. but i sent her a myspace message askin her if she was busy this weekend and im waitin for her reply. Im just askin for some suggestions by Senior Djs to see if she really is interested or is just being nice.
 

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My 10 cents

U should not have waited a month to ask her out. U should have called her and not used myspace. She gave u her # so u could use it. To tell if she is intrested in u use kino and ask about her personal life. But don't pry keep it sexual and look into her eyes. if you look strait into her eyes and her pupils dialte, she digs U. And your looks don't matter half as much as your attitude, but your approach so far lacks confidence. So be a man and challenge her!
 
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You know where she lives, get over there and ask her if she wants to do something. Call her, or something. Myspace, not the best way to ask somebody to go out sometime.. Something like, We should go out sometime, have a drink or get some food. Starting it with a question ( would you like to go out? ), just doesnt seem to work so well, and they get it all the time. If you come right out and "tell" her that yall should, then you get better results. If you guys have already had some conversations, I'm going to bet she will say yes.... Doesnt really mean she's interested in what your interested in, but if you guys have talked a few times, your foot is in the door, now you just have to find out if she's interested in the way you are ( meaning, not friends yada yada ) by her body language....
 
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the dj principle is to always assume she is interested, hence your actions will confirm her belief and yours
 
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well i was actually goin to ask her yesterday when i seen her but i was talkin to a friend when she walked outside and then she just walked back in before i was finished talkin to ma friend so i sent her this

"i wanted to ask u somthin yesterday but u went inside before i could ask.....'

and she replied

" Hey...u should of came knock at my door. I will be down the bayou for a couple days. What ya wanted?"

thats the kicker, i wrote back:
"yea i was goin to but i thought u might have been sleepin like the last time so i didnt really want to....i was just gonna ask how busy ur goin to be this weekend.."

the last time i went knock on her door and she was sleepin bc she had a night shift.

Heres what she wrote last week
"Hey haven't seen ya in a while. what u been doing? How was the concert? I worked all weekend and didn't do anything I did go out thursday though"

I mean is she wasnt at all interested she wouldnt write this would she?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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godam it ask her and you will know don't see anything to lose... talk to her buld the convo and ask ....
 
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yes the next time i see her ( ont exactly know when that will be, but it will be soon enough) i will ask her out, but another problem im having is shes 22 and im 19 and there are not alot of good date places where we are(small town in south louisiana) i was thinkin i could cook somthin for her bc i can cook pretty good and just watch a movie at my place or hers but thats all i can com up with at the moment.
 
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Why do you give a **** if she's interested? Worry about your OWN interest level. She gave you her digits, now use em. Take her out and i'm sure you can figure out the rest. Good luck :)
 
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again any good date suggestions bc im stumped. i will ask her out the next time i see her but i dont really have a good date plan.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Think of an activity that you wouldn't mind doing ALONE.Why i say this: Let's say you pick "shoot some pool".You get in the car,prep your cue (its best to BUY an accessory that you use for said activity) let's say for this time u have an pool glove.Now make sure you know when she's home and available.She lives next door to your best friend you say? let him in this "plan".Go knock on her door wearing the activity accessory (in our case the glove),when she answers say "Hi x,i was going to go shoot some pool with y (your friend,does she knows him btw?,doesn't matter but it helps if she does) but he cancelled last minute,you can claim his spot now and may give you a ride if you come now",then do an 180 and start going to your car.
 
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