"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to know if shes interested.

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Ok heres the situation. I met this girl about a month ago and she lives right next door to one of my good friends. this girl is smokin hot definitely a 9 or better and shes a senior in nursing school. Well i think she is interested but i find myself wonderin how to go about gettin her to do something with me. She gave me her phone # on myspace and i never did call her. Whenever i see her i talk to her and she seems interested bc well i happen to be good lookin too. dont ask how i know im good lookin bc i just do. but i sent her a myspace message askin her if she was busy this weekend and im waitin for her reply. Im just askin for some suggestions by Senior Djs to see if she really is interested or is just being nice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My 10 cents

U should not have waited a month to ask her out. U should have called her and not used myspace. She gave u her # so u could use it. To tell if she is intrested in u use kino and ask about her personal life. But don't pry keep it sexual and look into her eyes. if you look strait into her eyes and her pupils dialte, she digs U. And your looks don't matter half as much as your attitude, but your approach so far lacks confidence. So be a man and challenge her!
 
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You know where she lives, get over there and ask her if she wants to do something. Call her, or something. Myspace, not the best way to ask somebody to go out sometime.. Something like, We should go out sometime, have a drink or get some food. Starting it with a question ( would you like to go out? ), just doesnt seem to work so well, and they get it all the time. If you come right out and "tell" her that yall should, then you get better results. If you guys have already had some conversations, I'm going to bet she will say yes.... Doesnt really mean she's interested in what your interested in, but if you guys have talked a few times, your foot is in the door, now you just have to find out if she's interested in the way you are ( meaning, not friends yada yada ) by her body language....
 
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the dj principle is to always assume she is interested, hence your actions will confirm her belief and yours
 
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well i was actually goin to ask her yesterday when i seen her but i was talkin to a friend when she walked outside and then she just walked back in before i was finished talkin to ma friend so i sent her this

"i wanted to ask u somthin yesterday but u went inside before i could ask.....'

and she replied

" Hey...u should of came knock at my door. I will be down the bayou for a couple days. What ya wanted?"

thats the kicker, i wrote back:
"yea i was goin to but i thought u might have been sleepin like the last time so i didnt really want to....i was just gonna ask how busy ur goin to be this weekend.."

the last time i went knock on her door and she was sleepin bc she had a night shift.

Heres what she wrote last week
"Hey haven't seen ya in a while. what u been doing? How was the concert? I worked all weekend and didn't do anything I did go out thursday though"

I mean is she wasnt at all interested she wouldnt write this would she?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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godam it ask her and you will know don't see anything to lose... talk to her buld the convo and ask ....
 
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yes the next time i see her ( ont exactly know when that will be, but it will be soon enough) i will ask her out, but another problem im having is shes 22 and im 19 and there are not alot of good date places where we are(small town in south louisiana) i was thinkin i could cook somthin for her bc i can cook pretty good and just watch a movie at my place or hers but thats all i can com up with at the moment.
 
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Why do you give a **** if she's interested? Worry about your OWN interest level. She gave you her digits, now use em. Take her out and i'm sure you can figure out the rest. Good luck :)
 
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again any good date suggestions bc im stumped. i will ask her out the next time i see her but i dont really have a good date plan.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Think of an activity that you wouldn't mind doing ALONE.Why i say this: Let's say you pick "shoot some pool".You get in the car,prep your cue (its best to BUY an accessory that you use for said activity) let's say for this time u have an pool glove.Now make sure you know when she's home and available.She lives next door to your best friend you say? let him in this "plan".Go knock on her door wearing the activity accessory (in our case the glove),when she answers say "Hi x,i was going to go shoot some pool with y (your friend,does she knows him btw?,doesn't matter but it helps if she does) but he cancelled last minute,you can claim his spot now and may give you a ride if you come now",then do an 180 and start going to your car.
 
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