"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to kino back when SHE starts it??

cr2

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K...say you are drinking a 2 liter bottle strait from the bottle she hits it up...or things like smashes your head against a wall (playfully of course not hard :/)...how should you react back??? i mean if you where to do these kind of things to a girl they will surely get pissed?? or no...if yes how should you react..(not sure if this is kino but im pretty sure you guys shoudl know what im talking about)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's the same post.

And the bump thing is a big cry for attention.

Where's that Moderator with his key..
 

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Dude, these things are pretty obvious. Its really easy actually. She nudges your arm? Do it back. The important thing is that you don't let her be the initiator. Obviously she's comfortable with touching you, so touch her back! Keep it flowing. It'll get easier, and more natural, but you must initiate KINO to her as well, she'll soon pickup that you're too afraid to initiate anything, so DONT LET THAT HAPPEN.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok the problem is increasing now...well now she is doing it to me right in front of her bf (like putting her arms around me and ****) and i have this odd feeling its pissing him off
 
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