"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

How to keep track of your posts???

ntssv

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2004
Messages
114
Reaction score
1
I was wondering how everyone manages this? I'll post a thread and respond to a thread only to forget two days later when I try to follow up.

I'm sure it's simple, I just can't figure it out.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

ntssv

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2004
Messages
114
Reaction score
1
nevermind

I figured it out. duh...

Thanks anyways
 

Adone

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 12, 2005
Messages
805
Reaction score
2
Go to search, search your own username and SoSuave will automatically order the results basing on date.

Adone
 

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
This is even quicker.

Click your username to the immediate left of your post.
A drop-down menu will appear.
Follow it like a fluffy sheep.
 

S1NN3R

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2006
Messages
680
Reaction score
13
Location
Loss Vaygus, NV
And even quickerer, any topic you have posted in will have a small arrow in the icon to the left of the topic title when viewing sub-forums or new posts.

(yes, I know "quickerer" isn't really a word.....:D)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top