How to keep it light.i.e NOT a relationship?

[Mr.Fantastic]

Thats the question really, I have started seeing a girl and she texts me a lot etc, but i don't really want it to turn into anything very serious...i'm thinking i should keep texts/calls to a minimum and not spend too much time with her?

 

[Mr.Fantastic]

i have fvcked her...did that the third time i went out with her (a week after i met her)...now she texts me stuff like 'my bed feels empty'...just want some tips on how to play it to make sure that she doesnt go and fall in love with me or something...

 

[BlackJackal]

Tell her the truth. You dont want a relationship.

 

[JLW]

Tell her the truth. You dont want a relationship.

Agreed.

 

[Thomas94305]

Deangelo sez.. if you want to be friends, call/see her maybe once a week. If you want more than friends, call/see more.

Don't act like bf/gf, don't make boyfriend promises.

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

First off, you should tell her that you don't want a relationship, that's for sure.

If you want to keep her around, send her mixed signals. Tell her that the reason you don't want to get serious is because you've been hurt before. This gives her the idea that she can eventually bring you around. Act like you maybe ready for a relationship, when she starts egging it on, pull away. It will eventually turn into a cycle.

This is a pretty mean thing to do to girls, but it has worked for me in the past.

 

[Cod3r]

If you want to keep her around, send her mixed signals. Tell her that the reason you don't want to get serious is because you've been hurt before.

This is a pretty mean thing to do to girls, but it has worked for me in the past.

These techniques take me back to my days in the game, ahhh I was the definition of a guy most girls should stay away from, I've done this to so many girls its a shame... it works to perfection, but it feels morally wrong these days


-Cod3r