How to keep interest in a relationship?

[apocalypse later]

Hey guys, I'm new here, but not new to the DJ-esque philosophy. I've been reading David DeAngelo's stuff for quite awhile and I've always been pretty decent with picking up girls. I'm currently reading through the DJ Bible, so hopefully my question isn't in there already. I just thought I needed to ask this right now.

I've finally decided on a relationship with this girl I know. She's quite a prize, actually--fun to be with, really hott, doesn't start bull**** and drama, etc. I was absolutely fine when we weren't "together" a few weeks back--I could be ****ey/funny, etc. But now, it seems that she's more into the whole "I need to know you love me" thing, and we talk about serious things more often. At first, I thought I'd just tell her I'm redefining the relationship and we're not "together" anymore. But then I kind of figured that girls in high school need clarification on this kind of thing, and her friend confirmed it would be a bad idea to break it off.

So, to maintain interest in a relationship rather than just dating once in awhile, how does one go about that? Any general advice?

 

[GaryUranga]

well relationships do advance but you should never stop doing what oyu did in the first place, youre still higher status, you still lead, youre with her but she should know that you have the ability to walk away, all those things with the right balance will keep it interesting to her, for you thats her prob to kee pyou interested

 

[The Shocker]

good question, I'm in a somewhat similar situation. Thanks for the advice, Gary. Keep it coming guys.