"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to Keep Inspired and Keep Improving

ShiftyShaun

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Hey guys

I've been philosophying over the past few days about women and life in general, and how I am slowly but surely achieving my goals through relentless effort.

I only started posting and viewing articles on sosuave and learning to improve my game around 6 months ago. Before, I was reasonably successful with women having decent looks and a "funny" personality. I decided then and there that in order to achieve success with women, I had to put in the effort and make goals to drive me through.

I set goals not to have the girl of my dreams in a matter of weeks, but to improve myself and my interactions with women to eventually find "that perfect girl". I learnt from all the posts I read from you fine gentlemen ;) and implemented them. If they weren't successful, I at least had a hell of a lot of fun in the process of failing. The only thing that ever got me down was the REGRET of not approaching or closing when there was absolutely no reason not to!

Through this gradual improvement of my 'game', I decided to make the absolute MOST of the rest of my life. As a student, I got a job earning good money. I became more confident at approaching not only women, but men as well. Through this fearlessness I opened up countless, coincedental opportunities to follow my dream of becoming a DJ, and to make ridiculous amounts of money.

I was introduced to a network marketing opportunity which I was very skeptical about but, with my new outlook on life, I decided to go for it, put the effort and time in to make it happen! From learning how to make the most of my opportunties with woman and putting in the effort, I've created my own successful business, at the age of just 18! And I have sosuave and all the other "improving" individuals on this site to thank. My dreams and goals are now huge, I'm even planning to become a millionaire by 21. In my head, they are all achievable.

What I'm trying to say is that to be successful with anything in life requires time, effort, dedication, failure and more failure. By setting achievable goals and improving one small part of your life, you can exponentially grow as a person and become the perfect you!

If any of you are involved in network marketing, have big dreams or want to create a successful business for yourself online, I strongly recommend you visit this URL: http://www.the7figurenetworker.com/shaunwilliams

I hope that was valuable and inspiring to all the budding Don Juans out there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChalengeGuyFan

Master Don Juan
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Congratulations for all your successes!

One piece of advice: don't place so much emphasis on age.
It's such a superficial indicator and it only creates false expectations.

Think about it. ;)
 
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