how to keep her close but not TOO close?

[speakeasy]

I recently starting dating this chic. She's a nice, cute girl. She's got a few issues, but I can deal with it. The nice girl next door type that would make a great, loving girlfriend. I'd say I'm probably about 1 or 2 dates from ****ing her and I know she's not the type of girl that just wants to keep ****ing a guy unless it's going to lead somewhere. Yet, at this moment, I'm not looking for something like that. I want to keep my options open and still hunt for *****. I don't want to make her a hump and dump, she's cool and I'd like to have her around for the time being, and who knows, maybe I'll fall in love with her and want her to be my girlfriend, but for now, I only want to casually date her with no strings attached.

What's the best way to keep a chic satisified in only casually dating you and coming back for more without her trying to move it into an exclusive relationship?

 

[mastacheef]

im in a similar situation, I keep the contacting each other first at about 50% this is defiantly one thing i learned and my girl works all day every monday through friday so this works out perfectly for me to not seeing her THAT often. And currently im doing alot of teasing and ive been getting it back which is a good sign so those are a few things i think of that have been helping me with the girl coming back good luck man!

 

[WC2]

Are you both saying "I love you?" If not, then you shouldn't be worrying about getting in trouble for hooking up with other girls. She won't like it, but in the end it's about YOUR happiness. If you do get with other girls, make sure you are honest about it. Tell her that if she's mad, she should have told you that she doesn't want you with other women.

If you ARE saying I love you, then maybe you need to rethink the relationship