Alright, my first thread 
I must say from the start that this is not something about how to improve my DJ skills. It is more something about how to use them.
How do you guys keep the motivation to date new girls?
Some while back I used to be like meeting girls all day long. It was the period when my mentality was something like: every date that I have is a step to becoming a DJ. Well I just dated a lot of girls and know I am confident that I can get all the girls that I like. But that is not my problem.
The only place where I feel like DJing is in clubs where I get numbers, kisses and sometimes one night stands in a matter of hours. The problem is that I rarely call the numbers I get. I just have more important things to do then meet some girls. Things like drinking, fuking girls that I don't know (I never paid to this day, they are just girls that my friends know and that like to suck d!ck), learning, building muscle, and wasting time on my computer.
Maybe its because I have a sh!tty opinion about girls and no respect for them, probably that's why I feel like time spent with them is time thrown out the window.
Girlfriends like me in the first part of the relationship (first 3-4 dates) because I am a challenge (like I said they need to work to be my girls) but after that they want to get more intimate and see me everyday. This is where my relationships usually have a turn to the bad. If I have sex with them then we brake up shortly after. If we don't then we also break up because I refuse to go on dates. So its a lose lose situation.
It is like if you are a small boy and you see a toy car in a shop and you really want it for Christmas. You wait a few months until you get it you play with it for a few days and after that its just another toy in your collection. You play with it from time to time but its not fun anymore.
How can I make dating girls fun again??
I must say from the start that this is not something about how to improve my DJ skills. It is more something about how to use them.
How do you guys keep the motivation to date new girls?
Some while back I used to be like meeting girls all day long. It was the period when my mentality was something like: every date that I have is a step to becoming a DJ. Well I just dated a lot of girls and know I am confident that I can get all the girls that I like. But that is not my problem.
The only place where I feel like DJing is in clubs where I get numbers, kisses and sometimes one night stands in a matter of hours. The problem is that I rarely call the numbers I get. I just have more important things to do then meet some girls. Things like drinking, fuking girls that I don't know (I never paid to this day, they are just girls that my friends know and that like to suck d!ck), learning, building muscle, and wasting time on my computer.
Maybe its because I have a sh!tty opinion about girls and no respect for them, probably that's why I feel like time spent with them is time thrown out the window.
Girlfriends like me in the first part of the relationship (first 3-4 dates) because I am a challenge (like I said they need to work to be my girls) but after that they want to get more intimate and see me everyday. This is where my relationships usually have a turn to the bad. If I have sex with them then we brake up shortly after. If we don't then we also break up because I refuse to go on dates. So its a lose lose situation.
It is like if you are a small boy and you see a toy car in a shop and you really want it for Christmas. You wait a few months until you get it you play with it for a few days and after that its just another toy in your collection. You play with it from time to time but its not fun anymore.
How can I make dating girls fun again??