So I got this girl's number in my school about 3 weeks ago and took her to a haunted house type of place, and with good keno, and being c&f I got in a kiss at the end, there was a good vibe. The next weekend I was away and the following I went to her friend's house with some other kids and watched a movie and just cuddled. We haven't kissed since and she isn't really officially my gf, but in our school that is sort of just assumed, and I walk around with my arm around her waist, so it has that apperance as well. This week I feel like either 1) the spark is wearing down or 2) she is playing hard to get cos I am worrying about what she thinks of me too much. I am just feeling a little desperate to keep this girl because I really like her because she is really confident and really cute, an 8. I would just like to know what I should do to spark her interest again, I don't usually come here for advice, but I really could use some, I appriciate your time.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to keep gf interested (please respond)
- Thread starter RJC18103X
- Start date