"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to keep everything you've learned from going out the window

woopwoop

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I have learned so much from good guys on this website. I understand women more then i ever thought i could. Unfortunateley I can't help but have all that stuff escape my mind from time to time when I am in the presense of someone I am sexing and am also very much into. I actualy wear a rubberband now to snap myslef with when i realize i'm taking every word that comes out of her mouth seriously instead of letting her vent her feelings. Or when i find myself shifting into romantic mode thus taking the fun out of the sex we are having and adding extra pressure to her life. damn it let her bring that stuff up damn it!

Do you guys have any tips for keeping the knowledge flowing in crucial situations. this is probably stuff that happens in many aspects of life. Anyways looking for some sage advice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Htienvu

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Keep learning and applying it daily and it will become second nature.
 

Diaforetikos

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What Htienvu said. Apply it daily. Also, if your realizing your poleoblems, you'll recognize em more, and the you'll act accordingly. Don't worry about it. Your on the right track.
 

bigneil

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As with any science there is theory and application.

You might have your degree in DJ now, but you don't have much actual experience yet. You need both. Eventually it becomes second nature, but even then, women will use reverse psychology on you just to mess with you. You'll never figure them out 100%.

By the time a man can read a woman like a book he needs bifocals.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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