"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to keep control -being led on...

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Badmannaz

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idk but i feel like im being led on by this girl...i've seen her a couple times but recently i've been under the distinct impression that i was in the friend zone...and thas cool...i scince to many impossibilities between but then at the same time im attracted to her...in a girlfriend scince..well like 5 days after me n her last talk i got a message from her "thx for being my friend" im like oh damn im def in the friend zone...then i ask "so how's the guy search going with you?" and she says "it's over your the one" :confused: so im like what?? i swear i was just the friend..so of course i man up in start talking to her like she's a prospective girlfriend...but the only problem is i think she's avoiding me and won't talk to me...she'll txt me but won't talk to me...and i really wanna talk to her n all...i got her on my mind b/c of it and i feel i'm being led on...so what should i do?? im sure she's not it's probably the times i call her n all..i call pretty late...

so how do i keep control n relaxed? how do i get her to start wanting me more than i want her?? only EXPERIENCED DJ'S reply plz...or anyone who seriously know what there talking about
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thx shezz man...seriously I still don't know what she's thinking but i will make my conclusion tonight when i talk to her...im gonna tell her the deal
but ye i am stepping up as a man...good we still have some real don juans still hear im still in-training ;)
 
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Damn, don't even respond to this crap about "Thx for being my friend." Don't even respond to that shyt and don't even mention that you "don't want her as a friend".

Stay the coarse and don't take any notice of her games.
 
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