"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to keep control -being led on...

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idk but i feel like im being led on by this girl...i've seen her a couple times but recently i've been under the distinct impression that i was in the friend zone...and thas cool...i scince to many impossibilities between but then at the same time im attracted to her...in a girlfriend scince..well like 5 days after me n her last talk i got a message from her "thx for being my friend" im like oh damn im def in the friend zone...then i ask "so how's the guy search going with you?" and she says "it's over your the one" :confused: so im like what?? i swear i was just the friend..so of course i man up in start talking to her like she's a prospective girlfriend...but the only problem is i think she's avoiding me and won't talk to me...she'll txt me but won't talk to me...and i really wanna talk to her n all...i got her on my mind b/c of it and i feel i'm being led on...so what should i do?? im sure she's not it's probably the times i call her n all..i call pretty late...

so how do i keep control n relaxed? how do i get her to start wanting me more than i want her?? only EXPERIENCED DJ'S reply plz...or anyone who seriously know what there talking about
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thx shezz man...seriously I still don't know what she's thinking but i will make my conclusion tonight when i talk to her...im gonna tell her the deal
but ye i am stepping up as a man...good we still have some real don juans still hear im still in-training ;)
 
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Damn, don't even respond to this crap about "Thx for being my friend." Don't even respond to that shyt and don't even mention that you "don't want her as a friend".

Stay the coarse and don't take any notice of her games.
 
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