"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to keep a woman's attention?

Firefly

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I have noticed a problem in my dating recently. I am meeting a lot of women who are either in college, particuarly exchange students from the US. I meet up for a date, we seem to click, but then never hear from these girls again.

One theory that I had is that the types of girls I ask out seem to get a lot of attention, so they have a lot of choices in men.

So what can I do to keep these types of girl's attention, in light of all the competition?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DonGorgon

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When with every woman no matter how great the attraction or chemistry the clock starts ticking as to when she will no longer want you... Now. You cannot stop the clock or slow it down but you can observe it closely and dump her before she dumps you to save you ego some damage..

Signs its time to get out:

1. she disrespects you
2. She does not call
3. she ignores your call
4. She got too busy for you
5. not in the mood for sex...with you
6. wants to spend more time with others
 

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save ur face some disgrace and bolt elsewhere
 

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Wow that's terrible advice.

Leaving is very easy to do unfortunately you don't get anything

Does anybody have some real advice on how to keep a college aged girl interested?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon

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^^College aged girls are not wired to have long attention spans.. they are sowing oats and trying to tie them down is an exercise in futility. They will actually F you longer if you let them be free
 

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unfortuantely, a lot of girls are like this. yea they have a lot of options in college, so most probably aren't willing to settle down so quickly.

I think college girls are more inclined to go on group dates or tend to be more social, lke going to parties, bars, etc. So it might look like your're trying to settle down and look for a relationship when you go on these dates.

I would try doing parties or group dates instead
 
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